John L. Scott

After an intense battle with cancer John Scott died suddenly in his home Saturday, January 28, 2023, just a few weeks prior to his 70th birthday. He was tough and rather stubborn and kept fighting everyday to the very end. 

John was a hairdresser by trade and after moving to St. Louis in the early 1970s, he spent over 40 years working in the same salon. He managed the shop for some time and took good care of his clients. The shop was like a second home. He sometimes brought his children to work and they all found lasting relationships there with the other beauticians (“the girls”) and many of his clients and their families. 

Music was always a centerpiece of John’s life. He came from a very musical family and grew up singing. He performed for a bit as part of a vocal trio with his mother and sister. They traveled throughout the region singing hymns. Despite his remarkable talent and the immense joy it brought him, music never became John’s career as he had hoped. To many he was best known for sharing his musical gifts in multiple choirs and through beautiful duets with his beloved spouse Fred. 

Almost equally important in John’s life were food and cooking. Like his musical talents, these skills were frequently used in gifts of service. He could often be found in a church kitchen planning and preparing meals (sometimes for hundreds of people). And while he never did figure out how to cook for less than 8 people, it was important to John that everyone got a nourishing meal they enjoyed. 

A man of many talents, John created and collected beauty all around his life. He sewed new liturgical pieces for the church, embroidered table linens and even altered prom dresses. He loved flowers, so he grew irises, tulips and roses of all kinds until his yard was an explosion of color. He collected beautiful and ornate crystal and silver tableware as well as far more china than any person ever needed. 

John was a loving spouse, a caring and protective father and grandfather, and a passionate friend. He was always family oriented and even kept a very small vacation home in Stanwood, MI where he grew up. This allowed John and his family to visit aunts, cousins and other family regularly, despite the long drive. 

He is preceded in death by his parents Sgt. William “Bill” Scott and Shirley Scott as well as his brother Perrin Scott. He leaves behind his spouse Frederick Hudson; his son Sean Scott (fiance Aubrey Reed); his daughter Cass Blackwood (spouse Ames Blackwood); his grandchildren Brenden Scott, Owen Blackwood and Arlo Blackwood; his sister Becky Steketee

(husband Bob); as well as his former wife Kat Scott (partner Margaret Bley). A celebration of his life will be held Saturday, February 11, 2023 at 11am at Epiphany United Church of Christ, 2911 McNair Ave, St. Louis, MO 63118. In lieu of flowers please send donations to the American Cancer Society, Epiphany UCC or a charity of your choice.

6 Comments

  1. Amber on February 8, 2023 at 1:06 pm

    What a beautiful life you lived, John! Even though I never knew you in the flesh, I know your daughter and she shares your many passions and willingness to serve her community. Through her and the rest of your loving family you will be honored and your legacy will continue. My Granny Ramona joins you in hairdressing heaven!



  2. James Wilson on February 10, 2023 at 8:51 am

    🙏 Blessings as the memories and celebration of John will be of comfort currently and in future days. He became a friend who shared skills willingly with others.🌺💐



  3. Bill Toups on February 10, 2023 at 4:56 pm

    Although our lives only intersected for a short time, I was able to experience your hospitality and your friendship during my time in St. Louis. I wish we had had an opportunity to get to know each other better, but I am glad to have had the opportunity to meet you and get to know you a little. It was obvious from the first time I met you that you were a special person! I am grateful to have had you as a part of my life, short though that time was.



  4. Ellen Brady on February 11, 2023 at 12:11 pm

    I send my love and condolences as someone who has known John from our childhoods in northern Michigan and as someone who is part of his/our extended family. May God’s Spirit wrap around you in love and comfort as you deal with this enormous loss, allowing you to both grieve, celebrate, and know that John is now home and free of pain.



  5. Mary Ann Noud on February 13, 2023 at 6:04 pm

    MS classmates of ‘71 mourn your passing but are proud of the life you led.



  6. Marvin and Bill Schilling on February 14, 2023 at 8:36 am

    Fred, I’m so sorry for you loss. I am also very sorry I was unable to be the day he was Memorialized at the church service on the 11th. I really wanted to be there for you. My heartfelt apologies for both. Good vibes to you.



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