Harold Hilliard

Harold Marcus Hilliard, 91, of Webster Groves passed away September 14th at Laclede Groves Hospice. He was born December 29, 1928 in Wilmore, Kentucky. His father, Harold M Hilliard Sr, was a professor at Asbury Seminary, and his mother, Pearl Walker Hilliard, was a homemaker. Harold had an older sister Mildred and a younger brother Gerald.

With his father being a minister, Harold experienced frequent moves and exposures to different cultures, races, and environments. By his high school years, he had lived in 8 different parts of the country. Harold was sixteen, in the middle of his junior year in high school when the family moved to Puerto Rico where he took solid geometry in Spanish. The family decided he would finish high school in Odessa, Texas. There he lived alone in a garage apartment where he learned to be more self-sufficient. For college, Harold graduated from Texas Tech with BS and BA degrees in chemistry. His fondest memories always included good friends.

For most of the next 15 years, Harold alternated between working in industry and attending college. He received a Master of Science in Inorganic Chemistry from Stanford University and a Ph D in Analytic Chemistry from the University of Arizona. He worked for Phillips Petroleum, and Conoco. From 1972 – 1994 when he retired, Harold worked for the Tretolite division of Petrolite Corporation in various research, technical service, and technical liaison capacities, focusing on corrosion and environmental matters. He was active in several professional organizations, and traveled to production facilities in North America, South America, Europe, the Middle East, and Southeast Asia.

What gave Harold the greatest joy was meeting and marrying Carol Kingelin in 1970. They enjoyed 50 years of putting each other’s needs above their own. They were the perfect couple! They enjoyed wildlife and nature, and fed the many birds and animals in their bird and animal sanctuary on Hart Ave. They saw wonder around them and marveled at beauty. They were avid St Louis Cardinals fans and enjoyed attending the St Louis Symphony, the St Louis Speakers Series, as well as the many activities at Laclede Groves Retirement Center.

Harold was preceded in death by his parents and brother Gerald. He is survived by his wife Carol, his sister Mildred Boyd, nieces Cindy Lochridge, Cherry Bedenkop, Cassie Weir, and Maurene Russell, as well as brother-in-law Rick ( Kay ) Kingelin, and sister-in-law Mary Kingelin. There was be a private burial at Grace Hill Cemetery, Perry, Oklahoma.

Harold will be remembered for his dry wit, his incredible intelligence and humble nature, his kindness to all, and his generous, giving spirit. He truly never met a stranger, and will be missed by everyone who knew him.

6 Comments

  1. Cassie Weir on October 10, 2020 at 9:31 am

    I loved the photos of sweet Uncle Harold and the people who were important in his life. I will miss him immensely and send my love to all who knew and loved him, especially his wife of 50 years, Carol.



  2. Audrey Brekel on October 12, 2020 at 12:26 pm

    I worked for Harold for several years at Petrolite Corp. He was one of the sweetest men in my work life. Always smiling, always kind, and always pleasant to be around. I will miss him at our luncheons each year. I send my saddest condolences to Carol who is as sweet as Harold was. RIP Harold.



  3. Sam TOSCANO on October 23, 2020 at 10:14 am

    I’m very sorry to hear about Harold’s passing. What a great man. Always had time for people and a good story to tell. RIP. My condolences to Carol.



  4. Robert Wandold McDonald on November 24, 2020 at 10:06 pm

    I just found out about Harold. We were fantastic friends for 78 years. He was the smartest guy in my high school class and brilliant in my Texas Tech class. I loved him like a brother. His sage advice helped me many times. I will miss him forever.



  5. Casey Kelly on June 20, 2021 at 9:02 pm

    Harold was just wonderful! We became friends and fixed him up with my roommate Carol in 1969 in Houston. Joyful for me to read here 50+ years later that he considered marrying Carol the best decision he ever made. Harold had incredible wit and verbal skills he wore modestly. Well done, Harold!



  6. Roger D Nelson on January 8, 2022 at 3:21 pm

    I just learned of Harold’s passing. He was a great asset to any effort he took on. I thoroughly enjoyed the many years we worked together. He was one of God’s great humble gentlemen. We had many happy hours together.



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