Elmer Brown

February 8, 1929 to December 4, 2010
Sunrise to Sunset

His remains will be buried on Thursday, December 9, 2010 at 10:30 a.m. with full military honors at Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery, 2900 Sheridan, St. Louis, Missouri, 63125. Those who want to attend the short service can convene at the cemetery administration building inside the entrance at 10:15am sharp.

Elmer George Brown was born February 8, 1929 in St. Louis, Missouri to George and Ethel Brown. He was one of seven children. He was preceded in death by his wives Ozella (1971) and Patricia (2002), his parents, 3 brothers Abraham, Wyman and George, two Sisters Evelyn and Gretchen and one grandson Donald Ray.

He served in the U.S. Army as an infantryman in two wars, Korean and World War II.

“Iney”, as he was affectionately called by all who knew him, departed this life December 4, 2010 at his home 2801 Dr. Martin L. King Drive, Apt. 101 surrounded by his children. He loved and enjoyed his life. He was a jazz enthusiast, loved to play chess, but most of all he loved to cook.

He leaves to cherish his memories 6 daughters: Vanessa Denton, Marceline Bowden (Rodney), Lisa Brown, Denisa Gordon (Kenneth), Kimberly Brown, and LaChell Austin and 3 sons Charles Brown, Jeffrey Brown (Patricia) and Leroy Honeycutt, mother-in-law Thelma Tucker, 20 grandchildren and numerous great grandchildren, 1 brother Charles Brown and a host of nieces, nephews and other relatives and friends.

My Last Request

Please don’t say that I gave up, just say that I gave in.
Don’t say I lost the battle, for it was God’s war to lose or win.
Please don’t say how good I was, but that I did my best.
Just say I tried to do what’s right, to give the most I could, not do less.
Please don’t give me wings or halos; that’s for God to do.
I want no more than I deserve, no extras, just my due.
Please don’t give flowers, or talk in harsh tones.
Don’t be concerned about me now, I’m well with God, I’ve made it home.
Don’t talk about what could have been, it’s over and it’s done.
Just see to all my family’s needs, the battle has been won.
When you draw a picture of me don’t draw me as a saint.
I’ve done some good; I’ve done some wrong, so use all your paint.
Not just the bright and light tones, use some gray and dark
In fact, don’t put me down on canvass; paint me in your heart.
Don’t just remember all the good times, but remember all the bad.
For life is full of many things some happy and some sad.
But if you must do something, then I have one last request,
Forgive me for the wrongs I’ve done and with the love that’s left
Thank God for my soul’s resting, thank God for all who loved me.
Praise God who loved me best.

Acknowledgement

Your words of love brought much relief to our hearts consumed in grief. We acknowledge all acts of kindness shown to us. We thank you for prayers, cards, phone calls and visits. Please leave messages of love below. My God Bless You.

~The Family

 

22 Comments

  1. Vanessa Denton on December 7, 2010 at 12:00 am

    Daddy rest in peace, I Love You.



  2. David L. Carter on December 7, 2010 at 12:00 am

    Love you
    David



  3. Mrs. Pamela Spann-Hall (Burd) on December 7, 2010 at 12:00 am

    Vanessa, May God continue to bless you and your family during the loss of your loved one Mr. Brown (Daddy) who we all loved so much

    Your Little Sister Pam



  4. Pat Williams on December 8, 2010 at 12:00 am

    Vanessa, Daddy is now resting and at peace. He will be missed, but all is well. the Lord will continue to bless you during this time of sorrow. You know that I will always be there for you. Much Love and Prayers Always. Your friend and sister, Pat



  5. Marceline Bowden on December 8, 2010 at 12:00 am

    Daddy I will miss you so much. Seeing this video will help me get through this period. I will always love you and I know that you left here knowing that. This makes me stronger, now. Love.

    Lennie



  6. Pat Bell on December 8, 2010 at 12:00 am

    Vanessa, Uncle Iney fought a brave fight; but he is in a better place now with the family that went before him. You were to the end the daughter any parent would be proud of.

    Love,
    your cousin
    Pat



  7. Lisa Brown on December 8, 2010 at 12:00 am

    My trip the store will be lonely, hearing your voice will always be in my ear. My heart will stay strong because you were strong. My love for you was so sincere, knowing your love was too. Love you daddy,

    Your little baby,
    Lisa



  8. OZELLA NORLANDA BROWN on December 8, 2010 at 12:00 am

    U R GONE TO A BETTER PLACE NOW GRANDADDY NO MORE PAIN N SUFFERING!! TELL MI GRANDMA OZELLA I SAID HI N MAY YALL REST N PEACE!!



  9. Cecilia Ozella Brown on December 8, 2010 at 12:00 am

    Grandaddy, I will always miss and love you.

    Love,
    Cecilia



  10. Elmer G. Brown on December 8, 2010 at 12:00 am

    May God continue to bless you and your family. Mr. Brown is in a better place with peace.



  11. Karen W. Smith on December 8, 2010 at 12:00 am

    May God continue to bless you and your family. Mr. Brown is in a better place with peace.



  12. Gloria Simmons on December 8, 2010 at 12:00 am

    Vanessa, you have my deepest sympathy and may God continue to bless you.



  13. Tianna L. Brown on December 8, 2010 at 12:00 am

    Grandaddy know you are in a better place. I wish we could have went to the store one last time in that suit so you could yell at my Mama about knowing how to grocery shop.

    Love You,
    Tee



  14. Willie Mae Knox on December 8, 2010 at 12:00 am

    To my best friend Marcie and her family, you all have my deepest sympathy and condolences. You know I am here for you like always. Whatever it is I can do to help ease your mind, please let me know. Daddy is in a better place now. He will be greatly missed!



  15. Willie Mae Knox on December 8, 2010 at 12:00 am

    To my best friend Marcie and her family, you all have my deepest sympathy and condolences. You know I am here for you like always. Whatever it is I can do to help ease your mind, please let me know. Daddy is in a better place now. He will be greatly missed!



  16. Dewey Jones on December 8, 2010 at 12:00 am

    I’ve learned many things from Elmer, he was like a father to me. I think back on some of our conversations as if it was yesterday,I will never forget Elmer Brown , I just hope I could be half the man he was.



  17. Irene Ford and Family on December 8, 2010 at 12:00 am

    If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it. Happy moments, praise God. Difficult moments, seek God. Quiet moments, worship God. Painful moments, trust God. Every moment, thank God. You have my deepest Condolences. Marcie, Tee, Anaia, Keema, Neek, Nokia.



  18. Kenny & Gail Mitchell on December 8, 2010 at 12:00 am

    Vanessa, May God continue to bless you all during your time of sorrow. Mr. Brown is in a better place with peace. Much love and prayers always.



  19. Kenny & Gail Mitchell on December 8, 2010 at 12:00 am

    Vanessa, May God continue to bless you all during your time of sorrow. Mr. Brown is in a better place with peace. Much love and prayers always.



  20. Ursula Honeycutt on December 8, 2010 at 12:00 am

    Rest in peace. You are in a much better place. I love you and watch over me. Love Mookie



  21. Margaret Slaughter on December 9, 2010 at 12:00 am

    Vanessa, You and your family are in my prayers. Take comfort in knowing you have obeyed the only commandment with a promise — “Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the LORD your God is giving you.”



  22. Barbara Browm on December 12, 2010 at 12:00 am

    Vanessa May God continue to be with you and your family in these most trying times.that was my cool uncle he will be greatly missed, but just know that he lives in each of our hearts.



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