Marty Frohlich
Marty Frohlich, 72, died peacefully April 4, 2024 after a very long fight with pain and heart issues. She was born July 29,1951, in St. Louis, Missouri.
Mom
She was the first superwoman
She did it all and took care of us all
And by all, I mean most of us in here
She cooked for us and you better eat when she did
She cleaned for us and you better have kept it clean
She made us laugh
She made us cry
She made everyone she met love her
And she loved her family more than anything
Can we all just imagine what that reunion with Lloyd might have been like?
Probably something like him welcoming her with a kiss
As he did every day upon coming home from work
Believe it…it happened
Then maybe he’d say something like it took you long enough and she would tell him “shut up Lloyd” “I had things to do”
Regardless of how it may have been I’m sure there was maybe a beer and John Wayne alongside him to greet her
The thought of that first happy hour with grandma and grandpa uncle Paul and our dad should put a smile on everyone’s face
She loved her brothers and her “favorite” brother in law
Even when they acted like idiots she knew many of them to be
She defended them with everything she had
Nobody could say anything bad about them except her
Including and especially Lloyd
And if you did I feel sorry for you
I’ll never forget the story of grandma Haegele getting a call about her son Marty beating up a boy on the school bus
She was definitely a force not to be reckoned with
She loved her one and only sister like she was her one and only
She took such pride in being your sister
She loved you so much
Not to be forgotten are her sister in laws, nieces and nephews and even their kids
Family was so valuable to my mom
And if I have only one thing to tell you all today while remembering her it’s to enjoy your time together
Appreciate your siblings and your kids and their families
She wanted any reason for us to be together
Her girls were her pride and joy
If possible her grandchildren brought her even more joy
And she was so happy to be here for four generations of girls
She made girl power cool before it wasn’t
She taught us to be strong and stick up for ourselves
She made us who we are today and we couldn’t be more proud to be her daughters
And it carried down
I see her strength in my kids
She wanted nothing more than for them to succeed
Claudia finding success in her career and happiness in her family and being a mom made my mom so proud
Connor graduating with honors and being such an amazing leader
Chase moving on to play pro hockey
Carter making his way to play college hockey
And her friend, Cierra, leaving town to keep playing soccer
That’s probably one of many reasons she was at peace enough to leave us with her not being right down the road
Gavin seeing so much success and speed pitching in college
Bella finding her place in college and life
Peyton finishing high school and blossoming
And Charli becoming quite the gymnast and young lady
Nate who is excelling as a flight attendant and really enjoying traveling and his career.
We can’t leave out Nolan who succeeds in every sport and is the epitome of an athlete
As a Grandma, my mom loved seeing these kids play their sports
Even if she didn’t understand the game (like hockey which was her newest passion) she loved hearing and seeing their success
The Haegele bloodline along with her girls and grandkids will forever be her legacy
The second thing I would say in her honor is to stay active and keep moving
My moms quality of life these last couple years was not the best
Many of you remember her being the life of the party or dancing with the cowboys
Friday shopping with Grandma
Walking up and down the nursery hill thousands of times a week
Cleaning her house and always up for a lunch out with her girls
Our mom used to always be on the go
She was strong and active
I remember her chasing one or all of us girls down after dinner and pinning us to the ground to make some demand of us all in fun
A personal favorite of mine is the story of her playing goal in a soccer game and flipping a player over her head
She never backed down from a fight
But she was tired
Her body was tired and this last year took a lot out of her
If you want peace now that she is gone know that she is at peace and can finally rest
When it comes to this family she was the glue that held us all together
The only house more open to gatherings other than Ringer Rd. was Yaeger Rd.
Even those that were no longer guests wanted to be her guest because the company, the people and the gatherings were the best
In closing I’m flipping the script on her using a familiar phrase she often said to those she loved
“You’re leaving? Already?”
Oh Jenn
I feel like I knew her by reading this.
The strength and love of life she passed on to all of you is so special.
Your life is forever changed by her absence. It hurts so much because yall loved so much. i believe in ” so long for now”.. not goodbye. Love you and your family.
Respectfully
Kris