Maureen Ronken
Maureen Dearing was born in Seattle on May 22, 1940, shortly before WW2. Her family considered their ancestors to be from Ireland and North Carolina, with some small Cherokee contribution. Maureen knew from an early age that she wanted to be a nurse, and obtained her Registered Nurse bachelor’s degree from the University of Washington in 1962. In the summer of her initial year at hospital work, she met Don Ronken, and they were married in June of the following year. They first lived near the UW campus while Don completed graduate school, and Maureen worked as a nurse in medical clinics.
In 1967, Don’s research studies took them to Del Mar, California, where they welcomed their daughter, Marci. In 1969, the family moved to St. Louis, and their son, Matt, joined the family a year later. They settled into a home in University City that they would cherish for over 50 years. Once her children were in their older grades, Maureen returned to nursing, working evening shifts for a short period in a rehabilitation hospital, and then at Washington University’s Student Health Service, where she enjoyed the challenge of engaging with young patients and doctors from different cultures. After 18 years at WashU, she finally retired from nursing.
With both of them retired, Maureen and Don embraced the Midwest outdoors, which they found to be very different from their youthful experiences along the West Coast. Hiking Missouri’s national forests by foot, they encountered poison ivy and ticks for the first time. They subsequently discovered that a two-person kayak allowed them to explore still waters of local rivers and lakes, where they treasured their peaceful close encounters with the natural world.
Despite developing severe osteoarthritis in her later years, Maureen continued to enjoy the outdoors on her wrap-around porch at home, where she could watch the local wildlife and the neighborhood children playing. Especially important to her was continuing to attend the sporting events of her two grandsons, and worshiping at Samuel Church.
Maureen and Don were injured in a severe car accident from which she did not recover, passing away on June 28, 2024, which happened to fall on the 61st anniversary of their marriage. She is survived by her husband Don Ronken, daughter Marci Kelley, son Matt Ronken, his grandsons Christian and Cole, and her younger brother Chuck Dearing, who lives with his family in Seattle.
I met Maureen at First Congregational UCC.
For me she was affectionately known as Mo. I learned much from her wisdom and enjoyed her wry sense of humor. For years, Mo was a part of the First Congregational Women’s group and the Sacred Fellowship class on Tuesday mornings. She was always a blessing to others with her kindness and down to earth attitude. We shared the same birthday, May 22nd, and always reminded one another that good things happened on that day.
I will always cherish the time I’ve spent in Mo and Don’s company. Rest in power, Mo.
God be with you in your grief, Don.
Don, peace and blessings to you and your family. I remember and appreciate your and Maureen’s kind, gracious, generous natures, love of Nature, and service to God’s people. Thank you.
In hope, peace, and love,
Ron
A life well lived. May God welcome Maureen. Prayers of condolence to Matt and his entire family.
So sorry to hear this. May Maureen rest in peace 🙏🙏🙏
I knew Maureen at First Congregational Church, where she was a loving presence for all. She organized support for members in need, and was always a friendly ear for me when I saw her there. My deepest condolences to Don and the family – we will all miss her.
Love, Elisa
DeeDee and I just learned of Maureen’s untimely death. We lived across the street from Don and Maureen for 39 years. Maureen was a wonderful and cheerful presence on Waterman. We were sad to learn of her death and want to express our deepest sympathy to Don, Marci and Matt.