Michael R. Honer

December 10, 1949 – August 7, 2024

Mike “Hona” Honer, 74, of St. Louis, Missouri, passed away peacefully on August 7, 2024. 

He was born in St. Louis, Missouri in 1949 to Eva and Norman Honer. After completing high school, Mike spent time exploring career paths which lead him to the IT world, eventually founding his recruiting business: Preferred Resources Inc. He then moved on and opened his executive recruiting business, Honer and Associates. He was a dedicated and passionate professional throughout his nearly 50-year career. 

On the rare occasion that he was not working, Mike was an avid golfer and traveler with Jamaica being one of his favorite places. In more recent years, he enjoyed watching sports and spending time with his family. 

Mike is preceded in death by his parents, Eva (Wrozier) and Norman Honer, and best friend and mentor Al Oldfield. He is survived by the two most beloved people in his life, his wife, Shelley and his daughter, Cassidi.

A casual gathering of family and friends will be this Sunday, August 18th, from 2:00 p.m. – 4:00 p.m.

Circle 7 Ranch Tap House 

14412 Clayton Road

Ballwin, Missouri 63011

In lieu of flowers, please send donations to St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital.

12 Comments

  1. Lucie Dobbin Jones on August 17, 2024 at 2:02 pm

    Dearest Shelley and Cassidi, We are so sorry! We never had a chance to meet Mike, but I always know he was a very good man, and father..Our prayers are with you..Love Always Chris & Lucie Dobbin Jones



  2. Jim malone on August 17, 2024 at 2:05 pm

    Hona bee boy. Had some good times. Rest well.



  3. Sherry Higginbotham on August 17, 2024 at 3:21 pm

    Shelley & Cassidi, I am so terribly sorry for your loss💔💔💔 Mike is now pain free …



  4. Alena Oldfield Wayts on August 17, 2024 at 5:03 pm

    My sincere condolences to family and friends who loved him. I know that Al and Mike are drinking some fine red wine and enjoying each other’s company. ❤️🐾



  5. Tim Fisele on August 18, 2024 at 11:34 am

    Mike was an interesting guy fun to be around very smart and what a personality. We were born on the same day we used to keep in touch on our birthdays, but that has been sometime now. Rest in peace, good brother. Shelley and Cassidi my thoughts and prayers are with you



  6. Joe Thomure on August 20, 2024 at 12:36 pm

    Michael helped through my initial training at PCD, altho he was a manager in the established IT department, and I begin in the start -\up sales and marketing department. He helped by conveying technique and instituting confidence, and made me believe that my first placement was right around the corner since I already was the old “sales pro”. He stood up in my behalf and others when more senior management questioned our collective judgement and as many of us left to start or own firms, we remained connected by the same characteristics–headhunting and drinking with the sharks.
    Mike was a low handicap golfer, often competing in tournaments, very often winning . Despite that extraordinary skill set, he quit playing golf for the most part when Kelly then Cassidy came in to his life. Yeah, still had amazing Xmas parties, 2 liter bottles of Sterling Cab always seemed near empty, and his dirty old jokes came by out of him in burping patterns. Grant Youngman called last week, conveyed Mike’s years of suffering pain, Kelly helping Mike do his- best. Honee’ will be missed; his on-time humor, his unselfishness with his time and his wallet, and he never broke a promise. We never discussed religion that I remember, but I’m sure he is in a good place and certainly no longer suffering. We loved this man.
    Joe and Elaine Thomure



  7. Grant Youngman on August 20, 2024 at 12:38 pm

    RIP Hona. My condolences to Shelley and Cassidi. Mike was one of the hardest working guys I know in the recruiting business, and always fun to be around. Memories of Many drinks after work at PCD at the Top of the Sevens, and lest we not forget the fantastic holiday parties at Mike and Shelley’s. You will be missed brother.



  8. Kathleen Michael on August 20, 2024 at 3:43 pm

    So sorry to hear of Mike’s passing. Just heard today. Mike was a high school friend & we reconnected back in the late 70s then once again at our 50 year HS reunion. His dad was also our pharmist during the 60s. My condolences to his family.



  9. Steve Adams on August 26, 2024 at 9:05 pm

    Shelley and Casidi, I am so sorry to hear this news. Mike was not only a boss, but a friend. I attribute much of my success in the industry to Mike. Stay strong and know I am here if you if you need to talk. I just made a donation in Mike’s name to St Jude’s.



  10. Michael Kendall on August 27, 2024 at 8:45 pm

    Great friend and mentor! He’ll be missed. Prayers for all from the Kendalls.



  11. Susan Williams on August 30, 2024 at 5:28 pm

    Shelley and Cassidi, I was so saddened to hear of Mike’s passing. Praying for both of you.

    I first met Mike 40 years ago when I moved to Missouri to take a position at Ralston Purina. Back then we used a lot of recruiters, Mike by far was a favorite. Mike was a great guy, much admired and loved by many. He will be missed.



  12. Deanna Wickey on September 1, 2024 at 8:06 pm

    I was deeply saddened to hear about Mike’s passing. He was not only a great boss and mentor but also a wonderful person who brought so much joy and wisdom into our lives. I’ll always cherish the fun times we shared and the invaluable lessons he taught me. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Shelley, Cassidi, and the entire family during this difficult time.



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