Shannon Canty

Shannon Elizabeth Canty – born on July 6, 1969 died on September 27, 2019 at the age of 50 due to complications from Huntington’s Disease. She went by Shannon Bates during her marriage, and returned to her maiden name following her divorce in 2016. Like her mother, she was in the Brain Bank Program within the Movement Disorders Group at Barnes Hospital for further research to cure HD. Since the late 1990’s, researchers found the gene that causes the inherited disease and work continues to find a treatment or cure. One drug candidate recently began Phase III of clinical trials.

Shannon was preceded in death by her mother, Martha, at age 70 (October 15, 2013) and is survived by her father Thomas (Tom), brother Scott (sister-in-law, Katie), aunt Barbara Gossow/Uncle Robert (Bob) – St. Charles, cousins Ellen (Lockhart – Phoenix, AZ), Douglas Gossow, Amy (VanRy – Brooklyn, NY), Mark and Matthew (who also has HD) – Weeks, Indianapolis, IN, and the Kastner family in Hot Spring Village, AR. She is also survived by her second Labrador Retriever, Chloe, who has found a home with her long-term dog walker, Andrew McKinley.

Services will be held in the Watson Chapel at the Bonhomme Presbyterian Church (14820 Conway Road Chesterfield, MO) on Sunday, October 20th at 2:00pm with the help of Lynn Packwood. To remember Shannon, if so inclined, a contribution in her name can be made to the Huntington’s Disease Society of America (3286 Ivanhoe, St. Louis, MO 63139). Researchers are ever so close to finding a possible cure.

Shannon’s primary education was in the Parkway School District, as we lived first in Oak Tree Farms and then Chesterfield Hill. She graduated from Parkway Central High School in 1987 with many academic recognitions, including membership in the National Honors Society. One of the highlights of her high school years was hosting a French foreign exchange student and the reciprocal visit to France. Those years of French came in handy. In the awards ceremony prior to graduation it was noted that she had been designated a Grannon Scholar at DePauw University. She was awarded a $4,000 scholarship and admitted to The Management Fellows program. Besides hitting the books in high school, she enjoyed horses, like her mother did, and took lessons in hunter/jumper riding (see picture).

She began her college studies at DePauw in International Business but changed her major to English Literature. She always enjoyed reading, nurtured by her mother and the summer reading program of the St. Louis County Library District. During the summers and holiday breaks, she worked at the Tartan Corner at Plaza Frontenac (see picture). She also went on a charity work trip to Mexico (see picture with two children). As part of the Management Fellows program, she did an internship between her junior and senior years in Cleveland, Ohio (her mother’s home town) at Penton Publishing whose market was industry specific magazines. In 1991, she graduated Cum Laude from DePauw with a BA in English Literature. Activities in college included her sorority (Alpha Gamma Delta), student government, and the Management Fellows program.

After graduation, she started her professional career in publishing at Mosby (where her mother worked in customer service) editing medical related publications. She moved into an apartment with friends in University City and later Richmond Heights before changing directions and joining The StayWell Company in support of the American Red Cross. She moved to the Chestnut Hill section of Philadelphia and was welcomed by having her car stolen in November, 1994. But there was also an addition – her first Labrador Retriever – a yellow lab she named Clementine. Her love of dogs began with her help selecting the Canty family’s first dog, Rascal, a West Highland White Terrier, the first in a line that continues with the 5th, Johnston (Johnny). As her work became more focused on The American Red Cross, she moved to the Washington, DC area, first to Takoma Park, MD and later she bought a condo in Lake Ridge, VA overlooking the Occoquan River. She met her future husband through their work related to The American Red Cross and their mutual love of Labrador Retrievers. After marriage, they bought a house in Burke, VA. With job changes they moved to St. Louis, first living with her brother until they bought a house in the Thousand Oaks subdivision in Chesterfield.

Shannon was recognized many times with awards, plaques, and most importantly bonuses for her work on The Red Cross account. (See picture with Elizabeth Dole when she was retiring as President of The American Red Cross.)

Shannon started showing increased signs of Huntington’s in late 2013/early 2014. Work became more difficult and she applied for disability. After her divorce, family and specialists tried to convince her to move from her two-story house with many steps to a care facility where her health and well-being would be more secure. She would have none of it! She was always smart and stubborn, so we followed her wishes. She wanted to stay in her house and have the comfort and independence with family, friends, and neighbors, plus walk her dogs as long as she could. Earlier this year, Hana had health problems and had to be put down. We insisted that she have help taking care of her basic needs, plus the house and yard, in addition to wearing a medical alert device and daily phone calls to her father. We expected there would eventually be an accident or fall, but we continued to follow her wishes. Her fall on August 22nd was probably the 4th or 5th that we were aware of. Shannon was a very private person. The severity of this fall resulted in a 911 call and a trip to the emergency room. Paramedics decided a trauma center was required because of facial fractures and her being uncommunicative and uncooperative. She had surgery that evening, followed by a three week stay at Mercy Hospital with no cooperation and no recovery. After reviewing Shannon’s health care directive with the various professionals at Mercy, it was concluded that given her lack of recovery and refusal of any additional treatment or food, we had to follow her wishes and the temporary feeding tube would be removed when she was released from Mercy to a care center. She was transferred to Garden View Care Center in Chesterfield on September 14th with instructions to keep her comfortable and free of pain. After visits from clergy, family, neighbors, family friends, high school and college friends throughout the entire hospital and care center stay, but especially on Friday, September 27th. She died peacefully sometime that evening between 9:00 – 9:30pm. The family was together for steak night, a long standing tradition on Friday nights, when we were notified.

Shannon enjoyed family, friends, neighbors, her dogs, her work, hiking, national parks, travel, dog walking, book clubs, concerts, stage shows, popular and country music, sports – obviously the Cardinals (see picture with her favorite player, Willie McGee, at spring training) and most recently celebrated the Blues winning their first Stanley Cup, and lastly making dinner reservations. She made friends easily and once a friend, always a friend.

 

11 Comments

  1. Debbie and Dale Poslosky on October 14, 2019 at 7:26 am

    We were neighbors for many years. Shannon touched the lives of all of us in the neighborhood. She was instrumental in starting our book club and did a wonderful job organizing it and helping all of us stretch and grow through books. She was always so interested in our lives and families and would not allow any ounce of pity for her ever. She taught us about resilience and independence and how to try and live our lives to the fullest as best we can under difficult circumstances. She will truly be missed. I am so grateful that Shannon crossed my path and will carry her with me wherever I go.
    Love and respect.
    Debbie and Dale



  2. Bill Carstarphen on October 14, 2019 at 7:38 am

    So sorry for your loss Canty family. Shannon was a sweet soul. I hope all your wonderful memories will help you smile through the years.



  3. Pam Belcher on October 14, 2019 at 7:51 am

    My deepest sympathy to the family. Shannon was a fun person and I always enjoyed being around her laughing and having that glass of wine! God bless all



  4. roger echelmeier on October 14, 2019 at 5:08 pm

    We have knownShannon since she was an infant. She captured our hearts from then on.

    Roger & Nancy Echelmeier



  5. Dawn Johnson on October 14, 2019 at 8:59 pm

    I’m thankful & blessed to have known Shannon..her love for animals and the outdoors always amazed me, how she kept going. My heart goes out to her family for loosing her to soon, she will be missed but heaven gained a wonderful angel! God bless her family during this time of their loss.



  6. Charlie Walston on October 14, 2019 at 9:00 pm

    Tom,
    I saw the video of Shannon and what a wonderful person she became.



  7. Jennifer Deibert on October 15, 2019 at 7:52 pm

    I met Shannon more than 20 years ago at the Red Cross. We were colleagues and became friends. I have many fond memories of our DC book club, trips to the wineries in both VA and St Louis, wonderful foodie meals together and so much more. Shannon has always been such a positive person and so caring and loyal to her friends. I enjoyed talking to her about her dogs, favorite restaurants, books, beloved sports teams (Cardinals and the Blues), Ted Drewes, and her family. As her symptoms increased but she was still able to travel, I was able to host her at my home in VA for a couple of fun girls’ weekends. Last fall, I traveled with a couple of friends to visit Shannon. We had a great visit, walking her dogs and spending quality time together. Over the past 2 years, I talked to Shannon almost every weekend. I will miss her cheerful voice and friendship. Shannon lived on her own terms. She was ready to say goodbye to this world, and now, she is in heaven with her mom. Shannon, I miss you, but I’m so glad you are no longer suffering.



  8. Gene and Victoria Foster on October 16, 2019 at 9:25 am

    Please accept our sincere sympathy.

    River Bend Neighbors – Gene and Victoria Foster



  9. nancy mcclellan on October 19, 2019 at 1:11 pm

    Shannon was a loving and giving soul who fought her disease with great fortitude only to lose her battle in the end. She is now resting comfortably with her mom in heaven, no more suffering, anymore. It was a pleasure to know her. Her spirit does truly live on.

    Jim and Nancy McClellan
    Sturgeon Bay, Wi.



  10. Trish and Tom Walther on October 20, 2019 at 10:13 pm

    Very saddened to learn of Shannon’s passing. Always pleasant – and smiling – in conversation while walking her labs in our neighborhood. Shannon leaves a wonderful example of perseverance and cheer regardless of circumstance.



  11. Casey Berg on October 31, 2019 at 3:17 pm

    Shannon was one of the most kind and welcoming individuals I have ever known. I learned so much from her during our time working together at the Red Cross and StayWell. We used to have “copy edit” contests…they were very one-sided (for Shannon of course), but with a smile, she would be quick to say “I didn’t catch that one” to make me feel better… she very likely had…she was just was being nice!

    When I got my Lab in 2001, Shannon was quick to invite us over so that my pup could play with Clem. What fun we had that night. I will always remember Shannon fondly.

    My sympathy to your family.



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