Steven T. Exler

Steven T. Exler died peacefully in his home on July 19, 2020 in Ballwin, Missouri, at the age of 64.

Steve is survived by his beloved wife, Nancy Exler (Bock). Son of Thomas and Jacqueline (deceased) Exler. Dear Stepfather of Lisa (Brandon) Huber (Sammelman). He was admired by his twin grandchildren: Ryan and Ella. Dear brother to Jane (William Varnum) Exler, Linda (Michael) Limberg, Thomas (Stacy) Exler. Loving brother in law to Daniel (Sarah) Bock. Dear Uncle, Great Uncle, Cousin and wonderful friend to many.

Steve was a phenomenal bassist.

A memorial service is scheduled for Saturday, July 25, 2020 at 10:30am at Pathfinder Church, 15800 Manchester Road, Ellisville MO 63011. Visitation from 9am-10:30am.

Memorial donations are preferred to The Foundation For Barnes Jewish Hospital, www.FoundationBarnesJewish.org.

14 Comments

  1. Barry Seigel on July 22, 2020 at 5:20 pm

    Great bassist and a great guy .



  2. Don Staten on July 22, 2020 at 5:40 pm

    Great guy, great neighbor! RIP Steve!



  3. Bob Schroeder on July 22, 2020 at 6:25 pm

    I had the privilage to play with him in the Facts of Live Band. Great guy and unbelivable bass player. My thoughts are with his family.



  4. Dan Wirick on July 22, 2020 at 7:04 pm

    I had the pleasure of playing with him in Facts of Life & Phoenix bands.. He was amazing, and always a gentleman. Just a really great guy. He will be sorely missed!



  5. Geraldine Atchison on July 22, 2020 at 7:24 pm

    He was a good friend….awesome musician…. you will be missed by many

    David and Gerry
    Gracia, Costa Rica



  6. Patty Shofner Vogel on July 22, 2020 at 8:30 pm

    What an awesome guy. He was our neighbor in Winghaven and he would help me as sick as was when I needed help because my husband also had cancer. You touched so many lives.

    Nancy and Steve are awesome people. Steve say Hi to Ed for me I know he is
    Up there waiting for you I know you both are definitely both Gods a angels.



  7. Michael Bronner on July 23, 2020 at 5:49 pm

    God gifted Steve with the gift of music and used that gift to bring Steve into the Christian faith. His excellence as a musician honored his creator and inspired worshipers and the musicians who played with him. His humble attitude toward serving, even when he was sick, was humbling to us all as well. His walk with Jesus these last several years demonstrated Steve’s great faith. He he knew who held his future and whether lived or whether he died, it was a win – win for Steve. He will be greatly missed by all who shared in his life’s journey. We will remember his gentle spirit, his sense of humor and the love that he had for Nancy, his family and friends.



  8. Karen Heitzman on July 24, 2020 at 5:19 pm

    Steve was the definition of a kind, gentleman. His music can now join the
    choir of angels.



  9. Terry L Hasenfuss on September 13, 2020 at 1:11 pm

    I had the privilege to work with Steve for little over a year in MN. He was always a gentle soul, was always willing to help you out when you needed him. He also had a good eye for photography, that was something else we had in common. His strength in the face of illness was a testament to his faith. Rest in peace my friend.



  10. Jonathan Stroot on January 18, 2021 at 10:53 am

    It saddens my heart greatly to hear of Steve’s passing. We grew up in the same block, childhood friends (we moved out of the city and grew out of contact), he was great guy. I mourn his passing, he is in my prayers and I send my sincerest sympathies to his family and friends. Rest in peace old friend, you will be sorely missed.



  11. Thomas Thornton on February 1, 2021 at 9:24 am

    Steve worked for me at Verizon in Memphis, TN. Steve was an awesome telecom technician and the customers were very pleased with him. Steve and I became friends as we shared a common interest playing the bass guitar. When Steve would come to my gig, I would have Steve sit in with the band. I had purchased a bass guitar from Steve, a Calvin 6 string and what a challenge it was. I played that guitar earlier as I sat in for Steve at a gig as he went on an after hours service call. I loved Steve and always enjoyed being around Steve. ❤ I’m so sorry to hear of Steve passing as I’m sure the angels are happy he is there. Thank you Lord for bringing Steve into our lives. God bless.



  12. Sherry Drake on February 16, 2021 at 1:14 pm

    Just found out today, on Steve’s Birthday, of his passing. Worked many gigs together & Always knew he had my back. Prayers to Nancy & his family. He is missed!!



  13. Ken Harms on June 11, 2021 at 7:00 pm

    So really sorry to find this news of Steve”s passing. I had the real pleasure of working with Steve here in Pittsburgh. Together with Gale Belle on piano, we made some great jazz. He will be missed.



  14. Catherine Marie Decker on January 21, 2024 at 12:32 am

    I met Steve on a music venture. So sad to hear of his passing. He battled for a while and I last spoke with him during one of his battles. He gave it his all. Gone too soon. One of the sweetest musicians I ever met!



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