Dorothea LaVern Ross
ROSS, Dorothea LaVern, age 70, formerly of Middletown, Ohio, recently of
Bellflower, Missouri passed away early Tuesday morning, January 3rd , 2023.
She was born July 4th, 1952 in Middletown, Ohio to the late Dale and Dorothy
(Whisman) Hughes. She was a U.S. Army veteran who also graduated top of
her class in Nursing School. LaVern became disabled in 1980 after suffering a
paralyzing stroke. This led her to be a full-time homemaker, stay at home
mom and caretaker to many.
Preceding her in death were her husband, Steve Ross; parents; three sisters:
(Pernie Mae Ballard, Sharon Hughes, Linda Ballard); and two brothers:
(William Ballard and Michael Charles Ballard).
She is survived by two daughters: Jolene (Michael) Gilbert of Bellflower,
Missouri and Angel (Darin) Layher of Troy, Missouri; six grandchildren,
(Makayla Johnson, Cheyenne Johnson, Cherokee Johnson, Harold Johnson,
Ashlee (Dillon) Iverson and Emalee Layher); 11 great-grandchildren; one
sister (Hazel Ballard of Kentucky); and two brothers: (Robert (Kathy) Hughes of
Ohio and Floyd Lee Ballard of Tennessee).
As part of her final wishes, LaVern’s ashes will be placed at her final resting
place at Woodside Cemetery in Middletown, Ohio in the coming spring. We
are honored to share she was an organ donor, and her final act was to share
that gift to other families.
Memorial contributions may be made to Journey Church in Troy, MO as she
was always looking for ways to support their ministry.
I miss you so much grandma 😭 seeing you lying there in that hospital bed and watching them take you away will forever be embedded in my brain. The nurse handed me your glasses and said “she doesn’t need these anymore. She’s got new eyes now”, broke me even more. But she’s right, Your free now grandma. You got all new everything and your where you wanted to be. Your with grandpa now. I love you so much grandma. I’ll see you at them gates when the good lord calls me home. Tell my granddaddy I said hello and I love him. And take care of your great grandbabies until I get home ❤️ we are all going to the same place, you just beat us there. I love you.
Even tho I didn’t get to say goodbye just know I loved you and miss you dearly