Deborah Goulden
Deborah Anne Goulden, aged 59, passed away peacefully at home on August 16, 2024, after a courageous battle with breast cancer. Born on July 20, 1965, in Pasadena, California, Deborah was a beloved wife, mother, sister, aunt, and friend to many.
She was preceded in death by her father, Edgar M. Trenary and lovingly remembered by her mother Jeannette Trenary. Deborah is survived by her devoted husband of 34 years, James Goulden, and her loving children, Eric (Val) Goulden and Kristen (Michael Puff) Goulden. She also leaves behind her siblings, Mary Trenary Young and Eduard (Pam) Trenary, as well as eight cherished nieces and nephews. Additionally, Deborah was a beloved sister-in-law to Linda (Khris) Malin, and a niece, cousin, and dear friend to so many.
Deborah attended St. Timothy’s Grade School and Bishop DuBourg High School, after which she dedicated much of her adult life to tireless work and volunteer efforts in her community. Above all else, Deborah was a proud and loving wife and mother, roles which brought her the greatest joy.
In her final months, Deborah was surrounded by the unwavering love and support of her family, closest friends, and her dearest dogs, who brought her great comfort. Her determination and strength allowed her to savor every last moment with the ones she loved most.
A memorial service will be held at St. John Paul II Catholic Church (formerly St. George), located at 4980 Heege Rd., St. Louis, MO 63123, on August 24 at 10:00 a.m.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Deborah’s honor to Pink Ribbon Girls, supporting others in their fight against breast cancer.
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Debbie will be missed by many! She touched so many people in her life!! I am just glad that I was one of the people she touched!
God Bless You!!
Debbie,
Dear cousin thank you for endless energy to support others fighting against cancer! So many friends, family members love and treasure the memories of laughter, special occasions, etc. I will treasure the various moments at the pony farm and silliness we all share in growing.thanks, Vernon Theiss
Ps say hello to everyone else in that special place of serenity, love and peace! I know you too will be like a cloud watching over us on planet earth….RIP
Debbie and I worked together at F&D. Such a sweet, funny girl. We had a lot of fun. Loved being around her. We would meet up on the weekends once in a while and go shopping or out for lunch.
I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for all of you. Sending you many hugs and prayers during this difficult time.
Deb was quite possibly the nicest, kindest person I have ever known. She was someone I admired and was lucky to call my friend. Our hearts and prayers go out to Jim, Eric and Kristen and their family.
Debbie and I worked together at F&D. She was a great friend and we shared many happy moments. She was always eager to help me out. Prayers to her family.
Debbie was one of my most favorite people on this earth. People as kind and sweet as she was are hard to find. She had a life full of love while she was here. She’s a guardian angel to those she loved the most.
So sorry for your loss – my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family 🙏
Debbie was such a sweet person and I am so glad that I have met her and talked to her many times. Prayers and thoughts are with this awesome family.
I can’t think of an adjective that hasn’t been applied to the wonderfulness of Debbie Goulden. It’s no secret that Debbie was an awesome person. Our daughter lives in Stockholm and we sort of adopted Debbie as another daughter…She always told us not to worry she will take care of us! Debbie was the sweetest of the sweets. She will be missed.
My first memory of St Tim’s was on a hot field where our Kindergartener boys were playing soccer. Her sweet smile made me think “we belong here.” How could we know after that day so many wonderful memories would be made? I miss our epic old fashioned phone calls, finishing each other’s sentences and her bright light and laughter. How lucky we were to be her friends! 🍀
Jim. I just heard today about Deb’s passing There is nothing I can say to make things better but telling you you’re in my thoughts and prayers. I will always have the memories of Deb sitting at the field to watch all you guys play ball and I believe bringing her first dog. Her smile was notorious Hugs
Jim, I was so sorry to learn today of the passing of your sweet, vibrant, fun-loving Debbie. And I regret that the news of your loss did not make its way to the O’Rourke clan in time to be there for you at her memorial. I know, from losing John, how much that loving support means at such a painful time. We are a prayerful family, so you and your family will be lifted to God in tons of prayer. We
really care and send our love.