
Jennifer Botkin
Jennifer Botkin, age 50, of Barnhart MO , passed away peacefully on 05/16/2026 from . Born on 08/17/1975 in St.Louis.
Botkin, Jennifer (nee: Spilker), 50 on May 16, 2026. Daughter of Richard Spilker and the late Elizabeth Spilker; treasured daughter-in-law of Gary and Sharon Botkin; beloved wife of Michael Botkin; loving mother of Joel Botkin; dear sister and sister-in-law of Katherine (Dan) Staples, and Andrew (Taylor) Spilker; cherished aunt of Tyler Grygiel, Logan Grygiel, Henry Staples, Chase Spilker, Jaclynn Spilker and Maverick Spilker; dear sister-in-law of Melinda Botkin; aunt, cousin, friend, and teacher of many.
Jennifer loved family, friends, and her Saviour above all else. She treasured experiences over all worldly things. Kindness, compassion, faith, and love were what defined her. Nothing made her happier than to be surrounded by those whom she loved. She loved playing board and card games, bonding with others, enjoying the outdoors, worshiping, reading novels, and listening to music. Called to a life of service, she knew from the beginning that she had a calling to be an educator. Despite her health challenges, she completed her Master’s Degree in Education, qualifying her as a Reading Specialist, in December of 2025. Her tenacious resolve and determination carried her through many daunting obstacles. Her inner strength was inspirational.
Jennifer was preceded in death by Elizabeth Spliker (Cook) (mother) Evelyn & John Cook (grandmother/grandfather) Mary Elizabeth & Donald Spilker (grandmother/grandfather), . He is survived by Michael & Joel Botkin (husband/son), Rick Spliker (father), Kate, Dan, Tyler & Logan (Grygiel), & Henry Staples (sister & family), Andy, Taylor, Chase, Jaclynn, & Maverick Spilker (brother & family).
Memorial will be held on 05/30/2026 at New Hope United Methodist Church, Arnold Arnold MO beginning at 11:00 am.
Memorial contributions may be made to American Heart Association, National Multiple Sclerosis Society, or Jennifer’s Medical Expenses (re: Michael Botkin).

