Charles R. Lanham Sr
Charles R. Lanham, Sr, age 72, of St. Louis MO , passed away peacefully on 06/03/2026 from peacefully. Born on 06/17/1953 in St. Louis, MO.
Charles Sr was born and raised in St. Louis, Missouri. As a young man, he served his country while stationed in Korea as a Lieutenant in the Weapons Division. He later spent time living in Texas before returning home to Missouri, where he built a life centered on family, hard work, and service to others. A true jack-of-all-trades, Charles had a remarkable ability to repair just about anything. He spent much of his career working as a mechanic, a profession that suited both his skill and determination. Quiet by nature, he found joy in simple pleasures and creative pursuits. He loved to play guitar and the harmonica, he even spent time as a drummer. Charles enjoyed listening to music, watching historical documentaries and films, and spending time with those he loved most. He cherished his children, family, and pets and found peace and contentment in the comfort of his backyard. He will be remembered for his steady presence, practical wisdom, humor, and love he shared with those fortunate enough to know him.
Charles R. was preceded in death by Mother Josephine, Father Harley Beloved Step-son Adam Sisters Jenny, Norma, Mamie and Annie, Niece Sheila and Great-Nephew Scottie. He is survived by Sons Charles Lanham and Ryan Lanham, Daughter Beth Beck (Christopher); Jo Ann, Mother of his Children and cherished life-long friend, Grandchildren Emily and Nicholas; Great-Grandchild Elena, Sisters Pat and Donna, as well as numerous nieces and nephews.
Graveside services will be held on 06/17/2026 at Jefferson Barracks, St. Louis St. Louis MO
I first became acquainted with Butch (Charles Lanham) about 59 years ago when he lived on Dodier St. in N. St. Louis. The way we became acquainted was he’d sit in and played drums while a few of the guys in the neighborhood were learning to play guitar. I was probably 16 at the time making him about 14. He was always volunteering to help whether it was putting a new roof on my house or a major repair on the car. He was a pretty handy fellow to know. After we both retired we’d both be on the phone for hours at a time reminiscing about the past or discussing current events. My thoughts keep drifting towards him, I last talked to him on the phone three days ago, it doesn’t seem possible that he’s gone. I miss him.
I first became acquainted with Butch (Charles Lanham) about 59 years ago when he lived on Dodier St. in N. St. Louis. The way we became acquainted was he’d sit in and played drums while a few of the guys in the neighborhood were learning to play guitar. I was probably 16 at the time making him about 14. He was always volunteering to help whether it was putting a new roof on my house or a major repair on the car. He was a pretty handy fellow to know. After we both retired we’d both be on the phone for hours at a time reminiscing about the past or discussing current events. My thoughts keep drifting towards him, I last talked to him on the phone three days before he passed, it doesn’t seem possible that he’s gone. I miss him.
I Miss And Love You Dad. You Will Always Be In My Heart! I’m Sorry You Had To Go Like This! Please Rest In Peace..
I just wanted you to know you have always been the best father to me and I wouldn’t want it either other way! My biggest regret is I want there for you. I’m so sorry dad. Love you and I will keep thinking of you.