Herbie

Herbert “Herbie” Hoegemeier

Hoegemeier, Herbert John (Herbie) passed away on Friday, June 5th 2020.

Loving son of the late Lenora (Mige) and Herbert Edward Hoegemeier. Loving brother to Gary (Sandy) Hoegemeier, Michael Hoegemeier, and Laura (Rick) Bruder. Uncle to Matthew Hoegemeier, Daniel (Jen) Hoegemeier, Jacob (Sarah) Hoegemeier, Clinton (Christy) Hoegemeier, Christopher (Chelsea) Hoegemeier, Andrew Hoegemeier, Lucas Bruder, and Jeremy Bruder. Great uncle to Emma Dyer, Brooke Hoegemeier, Owen Hoegemeier, Hannah Hoegemeier, Grayson Hoegemeier, Chloe Hoegemeier, Brendan Hoegemeier, Colton Hoegemeier, and Vivianne Hoegemeier. Cousin to Shawn (Lori) O’Dell, and Laura (Mike) Gannon. Special friend to Kelly Neill.

For those that met Herbie, you would not soon forget him, and those close to him, revered him. He certainly was the life of the party! His social circles included many friends, and he enjoyed spending time with them at a local bar or campground. He favored dropping by and visiting family members from time to time. When visiting his brother Gary, he loved to poke fun at his nephews’ friends, and in return, was affectionately called ‘Smerb.’ The younger Hoegemeier generation viewed him as the cousin Eddy type (from National Lampoon’s Vacation).

Albeit impetuous at times, he was a highly intelligent man, full of wisdom beyond his years, and even enjoyed a stint of academically mentoring individuals. He relished staying abreast on current events and technological trends. By trade, he performed concrete flatwork; paving drives, sidewalks, and doing decorative concrete. Upon retiring, he tried his hand at such artisan works as wine making, creating sausage links, and fermenting cucumbers into pickles. His spicy pickles were second to none! He also liked to cook, and was quite proficient at it!

Some of his favorite past times were camping, barbecuing, floating, jet boating, billiards, bowling, and golf. He was an avid golfer, and looked forward to the yearly golf tournament with his brothers and nephews.

A celebration of Herbie’s life will be held by family in the coming weeks. Due to the COVID19 pandemic, there will be no visitation or funeral arrangement.

11 Comments

  1. Becky Alexander on June 15, 2020 at 7:40 pm

    Herbie was a good friend for years and I will genuinely miss him.Becky Alexander



  2. Dawn Duenke Seibert on June 15, 2020 at 7:46 pm

    Have known Herbie since high school. Always a fun guy! My sympathy to your family.
    Dawn Duenke Seibert



  3. Susan Williams on June 15, 2020 at 8:03 pm

    Herbie was always lots of fun, from the bbq’s in the park to him working with Mike. So sorry to all his family. He will be missed. Mike and Susie



  4. Roger Derryberry on June 15, 2020 at 8:19 pm

    I so sorry for the loss of Herbie, R.I.P. my friend ????????????



  5. Brian and Jan Sellmann on June 15, 2020 at 8:44 pm

    Herb was a good friend and a neighbor for a long long time. He will be deeply missed!!! Brian and Jan Sellmann



  6. Robin Rice on June 15, 2020 at 8:48 pm

    So sorry for your loss. I went to High School with Herbie. We remained friends since then. We spoke often and saw each other once in awhile. I will miss him.



  7. Jane on June 16, 2020 at 8:51 am

    So sorry to hear. What a character. RIP Herbie.



  8. NorlenGoehler on June 16, 2020 at 11:15 am

    My daughter just sent me herbby ‘s obituary I am so sorry to hear about that Herbie and I did a lot of work together out in gasconade County he helped me do my foundation on my house I will definitely miss him he was definitely a smart funny and intelligent man rest in peace buddy



  9. Julia Freema-Krull on June 16, 2020 at 4:31 pm

    Dear, Gary, Sandy & Mike,
    I am so very sorry to learn of your brothers passing. You have my deepest sympathy & I will keep all of in prayers.



  10. Michelle Gianella on June 17, 2020 at 8:42 pm

    So sorry to hear of his passing. Old high school friend. Prayers to the family.



  11. Barb (Wilhelm) McCann on June 19, 2020 at 8:14 am

    Herbie has been my friend since high school. I have so many memories of him from high school!
    He was such a very kind person. I saw him for the first time in nearly 50 years at a place in Kirkwood where other guys from high school were playing. We talked for a very long time and connected through Facebook afterwards.
    He had joined our reunion committee and was looking forward to the reunion.
    When I think of Herbie I see a smiling face – someone who is happy to see you and always had a kind word.
    I am so sad sorry for your loss and I know how much you will all miss him! Rest in peace my friend.

    Please let us know when you have his celebration of life – I know there are many people that would like to attend.



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