Dennis Hostetler

Dennis W. Hostetler, 68, of Collinsville, Illinois passed away peacefully on December 31, 2010 of mesothelioma, a cancer caused by exposure to asbestos.  He is survived by his life partner of 26 years, Charles Koehler, his sisters Gayle Henderson and Janice Hostetler, daughters Tesia Hostetler and Jocelyn Hostetler, sons Connor and Spencer Anderson-Procter, son-in-law Reuven Samuel, grandson Hunter Samuel, and an extended network of family and friends. 

Dennis was a university professor in Public Administration for thirty-one years at Southern Illinois University at Edwardsville.  He published articles on public finance, teaching and LGBT issues and also served as a consultant for state and local government agencies.  He was actively involved in the LGBT community, serving on the boards of P-FLAG, SAGE Metro St. Louis and Prime Timers St. Louis.

Dennis was an avid world traveler (inspired from his years of service in the Peace Corps), competitive tennis player, bicycle enthusiast, gay square dancer (Gateway Squares) and enjoyed playing a good round of bridge with friends.  He relished intense discussions (usually about politics and life) and cherished his family and friends.

A “Celebration of Life” memorial service will be held for Dennis on Saturday afternoon, January 22.  The family would welcome your short written personal rememberance or story (approx. one page) about Dennis to add to his written memoirs.  For memorial service time and location and/or to send your story about Dennis, please e-mail celebrationofdennis@yahoo.com.

In lieu of cards, food or flowers, donations may be made in his name to SAGE Metro St. Louis, 2710 South Grand Avenue, suite 109, St. Louis, MO 63118 (or go to http://sagemetrostl.org/Donations.aspx ).

 

24 Comments

  1. Sam and Mary Pearson on January 3, 2011 at 12:00 am

    We extend sincerest sympathy to all Dennis’s family. He was a grand friend and colleague and shall be missed by all who knew and worked with him.



  2. Brian & Susan Donnelly on January 3, 2011 at 12:00 am

    Dennis has been a wonderful friend and colleague. Susan and I send our sympathy to his family and many friends.



  3. Tom & Christine Kister on January 3, 2011 at 12:00 am

    We first met Dennis through our cousin Charles and were impressed by his wonderful sense of “being”. We sorrow at his passing and send our deepest condolences to Charles and their family.



  4. Sam Sinnett & Rodger Jenkins on January 4, 2011 at 12:00 am

    Our condolences to Charles and the rest of Charles & Dennis’ family. Charles & Dennis both have been inspirations in the LGBT community for so many of us.



  5. Bob Risk & Ray Mulligan on January 4, 2011 at 12:00 am

    I first met Dennis & Charles
    at Steve Weissman’s Pot Luck
    Dinners almost 25 years ago.
    Dennis’ participation in the
    LGBT community has always been an inspiration to us.
    Our deepest sympathies to
    Charles and their family.



  6. Pat and Cheryl on January 4, 2011 at 12:00 am

    We loved knowing and dancing with Dennis (& Chuck) — what a wonderful spirit and a wonderful “zest” for life. We send our condolences as well, Charles and family.



  7. Stanley Paden on January 4, 2011 at 12:00 am

    I am very sorry to hear of Dennis’s passing. I knew Charles as a colleague for many years and Dennis was always kind to me. It is very sad for me and I send my condolences.



  8. Dennis Rau on January 5, 2011 at 12:00 am

    My Condolences to you Charles. Keep in touch once you’ve had time to recover from such a great loss.

    Dennis Rau
    Bangkok, Thailand



  9. Tom Robertsen and Wiley Martin on January 5, 2011 at 12:00 am

    We met Dennis and Charles through our square class in 2006-2007. We always enjoyed dancing with them. Dennis will be deeply missed by all who knew him.



  10. Raquel Rife on January 5, 2011 at 12:00 am

    I first met Dennis through his charismatic daughter, Jocelyn. Dennis would have to put up with us high school girls being loud at night during sleepovers, but he always had a smile on his face when he would come down to see how our night went. He was always filled with “funnies” to share and possessed a warm & loving persona. Thank you, Dennis, for being such an awesome person! It was a privilege to have crossed paths in our lives. My sympathy and prayers are with you Jocelyn, Charles, & Tesia.



  11. Kay Nairn on January 5, 2011 at 12:00 am

    I knew Dennis only through my cousin Charles but thought highly of him nontheless. I am saddened by this great loss for Charles and the family. Blessings as you learn to live your lives without his physical presence.

    Kay



  12. Roy and Lisette Rose on January 6, 2011 at 12:00 am

    Our thoughts and prayers are with our cousin Charles and the family of Dennis. We are saddened to hear about the passing of such a wonderful man. It brings commfort to know that Dennis is free of pain and at peace.



  13. Bonnita Boone on January 6, 2011 at 12:00 am

    Charles we will pray for you and Dennis’s family. God will provide you guidance peace



  14. Pamela Hosler on January 10, 2011 at 12:00 am

    Dennis has been a splendid mate for Charles; they have brought out the best in each other. My deep condolences and prayers for finding that deep place where no one is alone.



  15. Jocelyn Hostetler on January 11, 2011 at 12:00 am

    I loved my father dearly. It touches my heart to read the heartfely messages left by the lives that he touched. I hope the pain that we feel will be replaced by all the wonderful memories we have of him. He will forever live on in our hearts. I look forward to seeing everyone at the celebration of his life event on Jan. 22



  16. Diane Gerardot (SLCC) on January 11, 2011 at 12:00 am

    My condolences to you Charles.



  17. Michelle & Bob Mesic on January 12, 2011 at 12:00 am

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you Cousin Charles and your family. I had the privilege of chatting with Dennis on the phone about four years ago. He was such a lovely man and a wonderful soul. I know he will be missed by all. All of you will be in our prayers.



  18. Steve McCommas on January 12, 2011 at 12:00 am

    I send my deepest sympathies to Charles and all of Dennis’s family and friends. Dennis was a wise and witty colleague, a valued tennis partner, and a wonderful person.



  19. Sue Martin (STLCC) on January 15, 2011 at 12:00 am

    Charles, my deepest sympathy for your loss.



  20. Susan & John Preece on January 17, 2011 at 12:00 am

    We have never met Dennis, but through our cousin Charles we feel as tho we have known him for years. It is with great sorrow that we send forth prayers and love to him and all the family.



  21. Shiv Dharan on January 17, 2011 at 12:00 am

    I met Dennis through Charles whom I met at St. Louis Community College. I have known Dennis for the last thirteen years. Dennis always had a positive attitude about life. Charles, please accept my deepest sympathy. I will be there on Saturday, January 22nd.



  22. Cindy & John Cronenberg on January 21, 2011 at 12:00 am

    We knew Dennis through my sister, Julie and family. Dennis has left his imprint on our hearts; he was a very intelligent, caring man who embraced life up to the very end. What a great role model for us all. Our thoughts and prayers are with Charles and all the family.



  23. Michelle Rodrigues on September 23, 2011 at 12:39 pm

    I worked with Dr.Dennis Hostetler for 3 years as his Graduate Assistant. It was the best time of my university years. He thought me how to be confident, how to speak up, how to be more proactive in life and how to never give up and to follow my dreams.. He always spoke about his lovely daugthers and the fun times he spent with them, be it Hawaii or any other place he visited.. He was always full of life..I am going to miss him dearly..my condolences to Charles and everyone in their family..



  24. STERLING (RICHARD) VAN DE MOORTEL on May 15, 2014 at 2:51 pm

    Charles: I only recently found out about Dennis’ death … and indeed about his life since Peace Corps. We were roommates in Gafsa for a year, then I saw him once afterwards in MT, then we lost touch. I’d love to hear from you if you’re up to it to share some memories from back then … and to hear more about his life. So fascinating that we were both gay and never knew the other was! My email: sterlingvan@yahoo.com. My phone: 760.459.5010.



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