Robert Bender
Born on February 25, 1957, passed on March 16, 2011. Devoted son to the late George and Doris (Mertz) Bender. Loving brother of Mary (Eric) Appel, Teresa (Barry), Ron (Kelly), Tony (Sue). Caring uncle to Barry W., and Joshua Yoakum, Megan, Melissa, and Ryan Bender, and Caroline Appel. Cousin and friend to many, best friend of cousin Rand Sugar. Devoted NASCAR fan. He was an employee of Crown Manor apartments and a member of refrigeration service engineer society. He will be greatly missed.
Memorial will be held at Dellwood Lounge, Saturday April 2, 2011 from 5:30pm-9pm, 1427 Chambers Road, Dellwood, MO 63135. Ph #: 314-521-9489
A time to come together, a place that Robert enjoyed. Robert enjoyed his NASCAR, especially #24 🙂 Always remember the good times!
A good and helpful RSES brother.
Bob ,you truely will be missed.This is the start of a new journey.May God be at your side.
I think you need to come back and haunt your sister for the #24 dig!
Bob was a neighbor & best friend!
He helped me build a house deck & pool
deck 20 some years ago! Skyways smiled
and truly loved Nascar & #24! Can’t
believe he would take his own life! He told me last time I saw him alive he renewed
friendship with a close friend Millie! His job was secure & his work van was Paid off! He lived with his mother & when she
passed away continued to live there!
I have a Bad Feeling that holds on in
my mind that there was foul play in his
Death! His friend Millie feels the same!
Why was he Cremated unless there was
something someone wanted to cover up!
His family wasn’t poor! Rest in Peace
Bob! I will always remember the good times Barbaquing & a few beers! Pool
Volleyball was Fun! Maybe some day
Your true surmise will come out! I strongly feel there is a Dark Side to your
Death! Terry