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Billy Ablin

February 21st, 1955 — April 9th, 2026

Billy D. Ablin passed away peacefully in St. Louis on April 9, 2026, at the age of 71. He was born in Pawhuska, OK on February 21, 1955.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Leo Benjamin Ablin and Betty Louise Ablin his beloved wife, Terry Lee Ablin (2023), the love of his life for nearly 44 years; his children, Caitlin Ablin and Zachary Ablin, both under 1 week old, his brother, Chester Charles Ablin; Sister in law Judi Emory (Elwell) and his parent in-laws Floyd and Eva Elwell.

Billy is survived by his son, Alex Samuel Ablin, and his cherished  twin grandchildren, Benjamin Leo and Bella Lee Ablin, who meant the absolute world to him. He is also lovingly remembered by his siblings, Carla James and Sherry Myers. Brother in laws Floyd Elwell and partner Christopher Clinton Conway, Gary James, Ray Myers, John and Diane Elwell Belanger (Sister in law) and David Dodds; along with nieces and nephews, including Amy Dodds, Nicky, Tomas, Josh, and Nayeli Mejia, Jen and Ben Myers, Taylor and Ashley James , Davis Kaufman, Bruce and Dylan Runion as well as cousins Sandi & Vicky Eaton and many friends, co workers, TKE brothers and Alex’s friends.

Billy was an athlete with an unmatched work ethic and relentless drive. He built his life on hustle, determination, passion, empathy and pride in everything he did. He was a leader, had grit, avid sports fan and collector and someone who poured into your cup, always, without judgement.

Terry was the love of his life, Alex was their miracle after 5 years and they had an incredible bond and life together. The love he had -for her and Alex was poured into everyone whose life he touched. Billy’s mother Betty, shaped into an incredible soul as she was. He truly was a man of God who cared deeply for others and lived his life with faith, generosity, and heart.

Beyond his professional achievements, swagger and heart- Billy was a devoted father and an incredible grandfather. Some of life’s best moments were the simplest—playing pool, listening to oldies music full blast, cardinals games, and sharing stories that made lasting memories. He had a way of making those around him feel something real, cared for, loved, a big conversationalist  and those moments will be carried on forever.

Billy also showed unwavering love and strength in caring for his family and his wife in her final 5 years, always putting others before himself. His son could not be more proud of the man he was and his impact.

There will not be a day that goes by that he isn’t remembered.

In Lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to Billy’s Twin Grandkids college fund: https://gofund.me/623469f66

 

“I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”

A Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday, 6/6/2026

4:00 — 8:00 PM

Location – Kirkwood, MO

Venue – TBD

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