Bradley Matthew Schaefer (Brad)

12/29/1981 -1/25/2024

Brad died suddenly, but peacefully at Barnes Hospital on January 25, 2024.

Brad is survived by his parents Richard and Bev Schaefer, his son Ryan Schaefer (Katie Bowling (Allen Bowling) Ryan’s mother), his sister Kara Wilkenson McCallum (Jason Walker fiancee), nieces Sofia Wilkenson and Charlotte McCallum. Brad is also survived by aunts, cousins and many friends.

Brad attended Word of Life Lutheran School, Lutheran South and Southeast Missouri State. He preferred hands-on work over a cubicle and fluorescent lights, working in industrial warehouses in many positions.

During the 10 years his family were foster parents to infants Brad could be found feeding, rocking, singing and dancing with the infants. When a baby wasn’t in his arms a kitten or cat was. He grew up with one or two cats, but also loved Pug dogs.

Brad was gifted with natural sports ability including soccer goalie, left handed pitcher and basketball forward. He played on school teams as well as select teams.

A talent he took for granted was his art ability. He began sketching at an early age and continued preferring pencils and chalk over paint.

Brad said the best thing he ever did was help create his handsome intelligent son. When Ryan visited, time was spent playing basketball, having light saber fights, drawing giant chalk figures in the alley. Swimming, video games, watching Star Wars movies and building with Legos were other favorites. Hearing their shrieks of laughter was music to one’s ears.

A favorite memory was a week spent in a cabin in the Smokey Mountains with Ryan and his mother, aunt, grandmother and great grandmother.

Brad was a true believer  and was never afraid to talk to others about his faith. He often read the Bible and would gladly admit he was helped through troubled times by God’s Word. His family is comforted to know he is safe now in God’s care.

Dear Brad, UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN

Per Brad’s request a private service will be held with immediate family at a later date.

8 Comments

  1. Tjaden Meyer on February 2, 2024 at 3:44 pm

    So



  2. Laura Reis on February 2, 2024 at 4:11 pm

    Love from the Reis family.



  3. Sandi Green on February 2, 2024 at 6:12 pm

    A beautiful tribute to Brad. I know, as I’m sure he knew, he was much loved.



  4. Barbara Kerr on February 2, 2024 at 11:54 pm

    What a beautiful obituary. My love to all who loved Brad. Aunt Barb.



  5. Pat Crawford on February 3, 2024 at 10:29 am

    RIP Brad Schaefer! I heard a lot about you from your mom through the years at Lutheran Family and shared in her love and joy of being a mother! I’m so so very sorry your life was cut short. May you and all the angels watch over your son and wonderful family!



  6. Jana on February 4, 2024 at 5:22 pm

    I pray that you all find a way to feel God’s peace after losing Brad. May the joy of knowing he is with his Savior fill your hearts! Sending love ❤️- Tim and Jana Brackman



  7. Roland Karen Erika Katarina on February 5, 2024 at 4:39 pm

    No words can comfort… no words can relieve the grief. Only The Word can soothe at at such times… we grieve with you, and in doing so we hope we may lighten this burden on you a bit…



  8. Doug Pritchard on February 6, 2024 at 4:48 pm

    Doug and Ruth are praying for you , hoping for peace in Jesus our Savior,.



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