Carole May Duncan (nee Long)
Carole May Duncan (nee Long) passed away peacefully surrounded by family on June 7, 2024, at the age of 87. She was born in St. Louis, MO on March 6, 1937. Beloved wife of the late Harold Duncan of 44 years. Dear Mother and Mother-in-Law of Tim (Mattie) Duncan, Todd (the late Mary) Duncan, Sandy (Darrin) Crook, Sue (Paul) Bajier; Patricia (Jon) Anderson; dear Grandmother of Kimberly, Dani (Nick), Britt, Patrick (Hannah), Nicole, Abbey, Kirstie and Carter; great grandchildren Hudson, Kasen and Rhett. She was preceded in death by her parents Perry and Louise Long and her siblings Betty Vallo, Charlie Long and Harvey Long.
Carole was a devoted daughter, sister, sister-in-law, wife, mother, grandmother, great grandmother, aunt, cousin and friend. She was hardworking and independent, serving others before herself, keeping up with her garden and home for as long as she was able.
Carole was a kind, sweet, loving, gentle, selfless person. She was a friend to all animals (except rabbits in her garden), often relishing the love of her grand dogs with a tender smile on her face. Carole was humble, always content to find joy in the simple things.
Carole was strong and unafraid to get her hands dirty, even putting shingles on the family home herself. After her retirement, at no surprise to anyone, she worked by caring for and serving others during the latter years of their lives. If it needed to be done, she would do it—she was the first to lend a helping hand, and the last to ask for help.
Carole loved spending time in her garden with her late husband Harold. Her corn and tomatoes were almost as sweet as her, and her generosity to others shone in the way she quickly gave others what she grew, allowing others to also enjoy the fruits of her labor.
Carole baked and cooked with humility and love. She made the world’s best chocolate chip cookies. Never boastful, upon praise she would quickly say “oh, it’s just the recipe off the tollhouse bag”—but everyone knew, even if she wouldn’t lay claim to their magnificence, that there was something spectacularly more to them. Carole’s other specialties included her famous sausage stuffing, sweet potatoes, creamed peas, mostaccioli, cheesecakes, and her beloved rye bread dip. She was always happy to share. If she knew you were coming, you better believe there’d be a fresh batch of oatmeal scotchies or golden grahams s’mores waiting for you.
Carole’s attitude, compassion and love of family were readily apparent to those who had the privilege of knowing her. She displayed constant strength and courage throughout her health battles and was an inspiration to us all. Carole’s life was reflective of her heart- always loving, always serving, ever-present. Though she is no longer physically present with us and will be missed every single day, she will live on forever in our hearts and with Jesus in heaven, where we will see her again.
In the words of our Lord and Savior, “well done, my good and faithful servant.”
Celebration of Life will be held Sunday, July 14, 2024 from 2 p.m. to 4 p. m. at
1208 Brittany Parkway Drive
Manchester, Missouri 63011
I’m so sad to hear of Carole’s passing, but it’s nice to know she no longer suffers. I know what a bright light she was and was loved by all. Peace to the children, grandchildren and great grand children! ❤️
Many people were touched by your loving kindness including my family. You are very loved and will be missed dearly. The words well done good and faithful servant are Words we all want to hear someday. A servants heart is who you were. No one was a stranger in your home. Rest in Peace and Enjoy your Savior until we meet again someday
Much Love
Mike and Renee Covell
When I come to the end of the road and the sun has set for me, I want no nights in a gloom-filled room Why cry for a soul set free? Miss me a little but not too long, And not with your head bowed low, Remember the love that we once shared, Miss me.. but let me go. For this is a journey that we all must take and each must go alone, It’s all a part of the Master’s plan, a step on the road to home. When you are lonely and sick at heart, Go to the friends we know, And bury your sorrow in doing good deeds, Miss…but let me go.
Mom had this from Uncle Harold’s passing I found this and cried remembering so many good times over the years, my heart is broke from missing so many but I know they’re all together but i still will always struggle to ever let go. I love you Aunt Carol 💗 and your with my Mom that you called your sister, and all our loved ones. My prayers and love are with you. Tim, Sandy, Todd, Sue 🙏❤️
I’ll always remember the vacations we would spend with Aunt Carole, Uncle Harold & all of you—- always so much fun!! She was always so full of love, life & laughter!! My heart hurts for all of you & sending hugs & prayers for comfort to all. She will live on in our hearts & memories until we see her again. God Bless & love you all.