Cecilie Dukay
Cecilie Gabriela was born in Novi Sad (Yugoslavia, now Serbia); on 11 June 1922 to Hermine and Stefan Dukay. She attended the German School in Beograd (Belgrade). After finishing secretarial school, she worked at a textile factory until it was bombed out in 1941 by Germany. Cecilie spoke German, Hungarian and Serbian, and found work as a secretary with the occupying German Army.
In Sept. 1944, the unit she worked for moved to Graz, Austria (which was annexed by Germany); to stay ahead of the advancing Russian Army. In April 1945 the unit was on the move again, and was in Bavaria when the American Army caught up to them and imprisoned the entire unit, including the secretarial pool.
While in “camp”, Cecilie became friends with Paula Faulkner. Cecilie was released in the spring of 1946, and Paula’s family took her into their home in Freising, Bavaria. In November 1947, she crossed the border (without permission) into Austria to rejoin her family who had fled to Schardenberg, Austria.
Cecilie worked at making brushes by hand, and then she knit sweaters for a clothing company. By 1952, Cecilie moved to Salzburg to attend nursing school. Her mother passed away in 1954. She graduated in the summer of 1955. In January 1957, she and her father Stefan emigrated to the United States to join her sister Ella, already in St. Louis.
Cecilie worked at “old” St. Anthony’s Hospital in the operating room for several years, and was very homesick at times. She started to work for Dr. Anton Hummel, an eye doctor in South St. Louis in the early 60’s. She worked for Dr. Hummel for over thirty years, and to her last day had a close relationship with his family.
Cecilie loved to travel. She went to Hungary, Germany and Austria to visit old friends and family, and attended several reunions of the German school of her childhood. She travelled all over the United States, to include the West, the East Coast, Florida, and any place her nieces and families were stationed with the Air Force (England, Idaho, Texas, Louisiana, North Carolina…). Her dream was to see Alaska, and she vacationed there in 2004.
Cecilie was beloved by family and friends, and had a large circle of acquaintances. She was a member of Emmaus Lutheran Church and the German Cultural Society. She enjoyed crafting, sewing, painting, and loved nature and flowers. She will be sorely missed; she truly was one of a kind.
A memorial visitation will be held Thursday, January 30, 2014 from 1 pm to 2 pm, memorial service from 2 pm to 3 pm, at St. Louis Cremation, 2135 Chouteau Ave., St. Louis, MO 63103. In lieu of flowers, the family prefers donations be made to the Ronald McDonald House.
 
Cili has been part of the art club and Senioren group for so long that her passing will leave a hole for many of us. Such a sweet sweet lady.
My sincerest sympathies.
So sorry for your loss. Her story is SO moving! What a life she lived.
I met Tante’ through her neice Babara Taubel and found her to be such an inspriration, full of so much life. She was, indeed, a very sweet lady and I am so glad our paths crossed. I send many prayers to her families.
Goodbye, Liebe Tante Cilli, we loved you from day one to the end. You are the best aunt we could have had and we loved you dearly. Thank you for all the wonderful memories and things we shared, the Christmas Day dinners and domino games and Slivovitz. God bless and say hello to Papa.
Tante Cilli, you leave this planet (and go on to the new) with many people who love you. I always enjoyed your company. I already knew you were an amazing woman but your life before America is astounding. I know you’ll be looking down upon your family and filling their hearts daily. Till we meet again.
I LOVE the picture of her looking at the Statue of Liberty!!! what a wonderful memorial.
Love and prayers go to Ella, the girls and Celia’s family. She was such a remarkable woman. I was a lucky one to have known her. She was fiercely independent and I was in awe of Celia for her ability to just get in that Volkswagen of hers and drive to somewhere she had never been before. I learned a lot from Celia. A lot about my own family’s history. She will be sorely missed but I have many, many fond loving memories, including the first time that Celia and her father came to dinner, that will be cherished. May god hold her in his arms.
Tante is one of a kind and will be miss so much by so many. I love your smile and your warm caring heart. You are an amazing woman and thank you for all your love you showed over the years. Say hello to all our loved ones as you reunite with all of them. We love you.
I am so glad I had to meet this amazing woman. Thanks for sharing your aunt with me Barb. She will be greatly missed. With prayers to your family
Donna