November 15, 1982–October 6, 2026

Patrick “Pat” Michael Kerry Fahey, 43, passed away on October 6, 2026, with his wife Alex, by his side, following a courageous 2-year battle with Myxoid Liposarcoma.

Born on November 15, 1982, Pat was the cherished son of Robert Paul Fahey Sr. and the late Deborah Ann (Key) Fahey. He was the beloved husband of Alex (née McCoy) Fahey and a loving stepfather to Bailey Elizabeth Bingham, Alyssa Faith Bingham, Chelsea Ann Bingham, and Logan Russell Bingham.

He was the dear brother of Robert Paul (Brittany) Fahey Jr., Kenneth Patrick Fahey, and the late Stephen Michael Fahey. Pat was the beloved grandson of Patricia (Petty) Wingenbach and the late Mark “Tony” Wingenbach; LaVerne Fahey; and John “Jack” Fahey; the late Robert Key Sr. (Maureen Key). He was also the brother-in-law of, Christopher McCoy, Rebecca Scott, Dominic LaFata, Frank (Ashley) LaFata, and Cascea Duvall, as well as the son-in-law of Val LaFata and Anthony LaFata.

Pat was preceded in death by his beloved mother, Debbie; his brother, Steve; his grandparents; and other cherished family members.

A loving uncle, Pat cherished all of his nieces and nephew, Alanah Marie Fahey, McKenna Ann Fahey, Lilah Rose Fahey, Alexis Fahey, Tyler Garamella, and Layla and Lucy McCoy. He was also a treasured nephew, cousin, and friend to many.

Pat was a man of Christian faith who had been baptized. His faith brought him comfort throughout his life and illness, and his family finds peace in knowing that he is now with God and reunited with the loved ones who went before him.

Pat had a special way of making everyone feel valued and loved. His easygoing personality, wonderful sense of humor, and playful spirit brought laughter and happiness wherever he went. He had a gift for forming friendships, creating lasting memories, and leaving a meaningful impression on everyone

Pat’s playful personality, quick wit, and wonderful sense of humor were part of what made him so special. He was known for giving people nicknames, and if you were lucky enough, sometimes more than one. Pat was a devoted St. Louis Cardinals fan, often sporting his Cardinals jersey or T-shirts and always keeping up with the latest stats and everything happening with his team. He loved his family deeply and embraced his role as a stepfather with genuine love and affection.

Through his work in management and as a mentor, he built lasting friendships and made a meaningful difference in the lives of many.

Throughout his illness, cancer did not define him, Pat demonstrated remarkable courage and determination. Even during the most difficult times, he maintained the humor, kindness, and spirit that made him so loved. His strength was evident not only in how he faced his illness but also in the love he continued to share with those around him.

He will be remembered for his laughter, generous heart, treasured friendships, and the love he gave so freely. Although his time here was far too short, the memories he leaves behind will live on in the hearts of all who knew and loved him.

A Celebration of Life honoring Patrick Fahey will be held on Saturday, November 7^th, 2026, from 3:00pm to 7:00pm at St. Ferdinand Duchesne Hall, 1745 Charbonier Road, Florissant, MO 63031.

Family and friends are invited to join us for an informal, open-house gathering in the hall, for food and fellowship to share memories, celebrate Patrick’s life, and enjoy time together. A special time for prayer, sharing stores and remembrance is planned for approximately 4:30pm – 5:00pm.