Ruth Ann Epstein

Ruth Ann (McHenry McEldowney) Epstein

4/30-1929- 3/30/2017

Ruth Ann Epstein passed away peacefully at home on 3/30/17. She was born in Jersey City, NJ to William McHenry and Helen Pate. She was raised in Hillside, NJ by her Uncle and Aunt, Frank and Helen Durkee.

She met John McEldowney as a young 13 year old, was engaged at 17 and married on her 20th birthday, 4/30/1949. After getting married, she and John moved to California in 1951. They had two children, Frank and Joan. After John’s passing she met Irwin Epstein. They were married June 15, 1985.

Ruth Ann had many talents and pursued many ventures in her career. In New York she was an actress, dancer and model. In California, she worked as an Art Director at KTLA, at Desilu Productions, Paramount Studio as Danny Thomas’ personal secretary, Columbia Pictures, Screen Gems for Harry Koplan and Eddie Foy Jr, and The Lawrence Welk Show.

Later she and Irwin formed their own talent agencies Friendly Hands Productions and R&I Enterprises. They owned and operated Kookie Kartunes a tee shirt shop and Sherwood Forrest Florist. She worked as a free-lance graphic artist, book illustrator and writer and created several lines of her own greeting cards.

Ruth Ann loved to knit and many were gifted with her knitted scarfs and Bubbe blankets.

She was kind, full of love and laughter and lived life with zest.

We will all miss her stories.

Ruth Ann is survived by her son Frank (Josephine) McEldowney, daughter Joan (John) Pitkin and son Larry (Jennifer) Epstein. Her grandchildren who called her Bubbe or Mimi are Sarah Pitkin, Kevin Pitkin, Tim McEldowney, Dan McEldowney, Jordan Epstein and Zoe Epstein. Sister Joanne (Charles) Appel. Nieces Jan Easton and Debra Joy Hart, and nephew Glenn Easton and Downey family nieces and nephews who affectionately called her Aunt Mickey.

Private Interment at Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery

Celebration of Life to be held Friday June 16, 2017 6pm at the Pitkin Home

4 Comments

  1. Shirley Kuppinger on May 11, 2017 at 1:48 pm

    She will be greatly missed.



  2. Cheryl lite on May 11, 2017 at 5:37 pm

    I am so sorry for your lost. Your mother was a wonderful person, and will miss by you and your family. You are a wonderful daughter who always was their for her, and
    Erwin. Even though I won’t be there at her funeral just know my heart is with you, and your family. Love cousin cheryl



  3. Carol Koplan on May 14, 2017 at 12:55 pm

    Ruth Ann will be missed. I have enjoyed corresponding with her through the years and will miss hearing from her. My love goes out to her family and friends.



  4. Jolene Goodnight on June 26, 2017 at 6:31 am

    For so many years I loved her as a friend and adopted her and Irwin as a surrogate Aunt and Uncle. I met her online when my daughter who is about to turn 24 was 5. She was a joy to talk with. She loved her Joan with all of her heart.
    I love you Aunt Ruth and I miss you but, I know you are there with Uncle Irwin. He use to call you his girl. Now, he has his girl with him. Love you always.
    Jolene (Eden)



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