Stephen Hughes Lawler
Lawler, Stephen Hughes (Steve), baptized into the hope of Christ’s resurrection on December 9, 2025 at the age of 84. We find peace in knowing he is finally free from the confusion and struggle caused by Alzheimer’s.
Steve was born on December 27, 1940 in St. Charles MO. He is preceded in death by his parents Hazel (Mackey) and Frank Lawler and his beloved wife Roma (Reeves) Lawler. He was the loving father of Keith (Laura) Lawler; cherished grandfather of Stephanie (Ryan) Simms, Ashley (Collin) Youngerman, and great-grandfather of Audrey, Claire, Dylan Simms and Theo, Landon, Nolan Youngerman; dearest Uncle, Brother-in-law, Cousin and Friend.
With heavy hearts and grateful memories we celebrate the life of Steve. His humor and wit made everyone around him feel appreciated and welcomed. A self-made man he built his success through hard work and determination. He entered the Pipefitters Union at the age of 19 and excelled at his craft over his 45 years as a Fitter. He rose through the ranks and was appointed Director of Training. He worked hard and took great pride in his efforts to strengthen the training program and ensure all state and federal safety standards were met and exceeded. Even as the disease stole his memory, his stories from his early pipefitting days stayed with him and he loved to share those memories.
Steve was an accomplished golfer, and had a lifetime love of fishing and hunting, sharing those passions with his family.
Of all his accomplishments, his proudest was his family. His love was steady, generous, and unshakable. He led by example teaching resilience, kindness, and the importance of hard work. He leaves behind a legacy of laughter, strength, and love. Though he is no longer with us, the joy he spread continues to shine in the hearts of all those who knew him. He celebrated every milestone, offered guidance, patience, and showed pride not through great gestures but through everyday moments, always ready to lend a helping hand. He would always say, even near the end, “if you need anything let me know!” His love will be in our hearts forever. He will be greatly missed.
Services: Visitation at St. Margaret Mary Alacoque Catholic Church (4900 Ringer Road, 63129) on Tuesday December 16th, from 9:00 am until time of funeral mass at 11:00 am. Steve’s final act of kindness was to give the gift of life through donating his body to St. Louis University in the hopes of medical advances for others. In lieu of flowers, memorials to the Alzheimer’s Association would be appreciated. https://www.alz.org/
We were fortunate to know Steve and Roma for over 50 plus years. We have so many great memories. They will always be in our hearts. Most of all we are lucky to have two great guardian angels taking care of us from above prayers and hugs for Keith and Laura and their families. God Bless all
Mick and CoCo
Steve was an all around wonderful, funny and kind soul. Every year in December, our family celebrated with Roma and Steve at their home on Steve’s birthday. We have some wonderful memories of the two of them. The most wonderful family you’d ever meet! So very blessed to have known Steve and Roma. Steve always had a funny story to share and his love for his family was always evident. Though we will miss him earth side, we are so happy that he will join his sweet Roma in God’s beautiful ever after. Hugs to ALL of Steve’s loved ones, share your memories everyday with the grands. Sending our love, Cathy and Tim Schmidt 💔
We are deeply saddened by Steve’s passing. He was such a kind and gentle man, and his warmth touched everyone around him. It was truly a privilege to know him, and he will be greatly missed by all of us. May you find comfort in the love and memories you shared with him and know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Please accept my respect and sympathy on the loss of your Dad. I have known the Lawler Family for 63 years from Jefferson Barracks and St. Bernadette. For over 30 years I worked on many construction jobs with him in the St. Louis area. He always went out of his way to talk with you. He had moral integrity and treated everyone as his equal.