Stephen Miserocchi
Stephen Arthur Miserocchi, a lifelong resident of Webster Groves, passed away on Monday, November 25, 2013, while holding the hand of the love of his life, his soul mate, Kim Miserocchi. Steve was born on November 19, 1961, the third child born to the union of Michael and Ann Miserocchi. Steve was preceded in death by his father Michael, father-in-law, John Lenart and dog child, Codi.
Steve is survived by his wife Kim, his siblings, Mike (Stephanie) Miserocchi & Kate (Mark) Ritter. His mother-in law, Judy (Doug) Thorp. His sibling-in-laws, Lori (Chris) Riley, Mark (Linda) Lenart, Lisa (Ed) Cynowa & Suzie ( John) Wallace, along with 13 beautiful nieces and nephews he adored.
A landscaping artist, lover of nature and successful business owner of Cara-Tera Landscaping, Steve was a man who embodied “Joie de Vie” from the very center of his being. He lived to love; life, family, work, friends, all with a passion seldom seen. His smile radiated from his very center and nothing was more important to Steve than the moment he was in. He lived in the present and made all who were present to him his priority. When he spoke of his nieces, nephews and various family you could see the joy he embodied and feel his love. When he talked of a landscape project you could see by his stance and hear in his inflection he was totally committed to the job. Steve loved his customers, even the difficult ones and every day was a race to see if he could please them all. He cared for and worried about his “men” at Cara-Tera and worked hard to ensure they could provide for their families. If you knew him, you may have noticed Steve’s daily attire, in keeping with his unique philosophy of life; sleeves rolled up, work clothes on, ready to dig into whatever task he set himself to, always with the desire to make people happy.
Steve loved to fish, feed the birds, float on the river, cook, eat, and DANCE. He loved his St. Louis Cardinals and was honored to have several as customers. So much love, but nothing could compare to his love of his “Kimmy”. Steve and Kim married on September 3, 1999. Two people were never more suited for each other, they made a formidable team in life and in business. With Kim, Steve became a complete man, and his irrepressible outlook and charm soared even higher. Kim gave Steve focus for his intense energy and he was able to concentrate on the things that would make their life together grow. With every year their happiness and love grew deeper and more profound. Few couples ever grow this devoted to one another. Theirs is a love affair of a lifetime.
Dear Kim,
Your love story is a beautiful one and one that all who knew you saw and felt. We are so grateful to know Steve. He was so positive, warm, caring, and fun. We think of him every time we walk into our home, up the walkway Steve built. His work is a part of so many loving homes. I remember talking with him about how he wanted to help one of his workers that had a troubled life. If only every employer was so willing to give their employees such a caring hand up. Our heart aches for you. We are here for you, Kim.
Hugs,
Anne and Tim
Dear Kim,
Steve was without question one of my all time favorite people that I have met. He truly was a man who you never heard anyone speak negatively about him..nothing but positive. I always stopped to talk to Steve when I would see him outside as he was so uplifting and he just made people feel good. I was inspired by Steve and the way he cared for everyone including his workers. My youngest son Joe worked for Steve and enjoyed every minute of it. Steve was simply the best. I loved eating his freshly grilled lamb chops…man the guy could cook too. I will miss my buddy “Tarzan” as Bob K and I called Steve. I am so saddened by his passing it will hurt not having him here but I know he is in a special place with God and he always will be in a special place in my heart.
Kim – if you ever need anything at all that I or my family can help with, I will be upset if you don’t ask.
I loved Steve and will truly miss him. God Bless such a wonderful person.
Sincerely,
John and the Scariot family
Dear Kim,
Or hearts ache for you and all of those closest to you and Steve.
gar·den·er (gärd n r, gär dn- r). n. One who works in or tends a garden for pleasure or hire.
Steve was a passionate gardener who was “grounded” spiritually and a “tiller” that cultivated rich relationships in his life via plants and people. Is it any wonder what brought him joy (playing in the dirt) when he was away from you?
He was a source of comfort, a committed neighbor, and a faithful friend to us. When we think about Steve we will always remember how kind and thoughtful he was towards Ken and I during our landscaping projects and our “life-learning” projects. He supported both of us on many levels during our friendship with him.
We pray that his selfless spirit lives on in every soul that he touched during his life on Earth. We also pray that you will feel his gentleman-like presence as he holds the candle to light your darkness and ease your pain through the coming days.
On Christ’s resurrection day, there was a figure near the tomb that Mary believed was the gardener, but of course it was Jesus himself. And the gardener asked Mary why she was crying. Of course we all know why she was in such pain: she was missing her dear friend and was distraught that someone might have taken Him away. He saw how much she was hurting and eased her pain by making his presence known to her. Kim, in a similar way, God knows how much you are hurting and wants to ease your pain through the gift of friends who will comfort you without question.
Kim, let us show you our love for Steve by accepting our generosities and good will as we want to show gratitude for all of the many ways that Steve blessed our lives.
Ken and Jodie
Dear Kimmy,
Our hearts and prayers are with you everyday and have been for a very long time. You and Steve were one of the most loving, fun, caring and warm people we have had the pleasure to know. I remember the day I really got to know Steve. It was years before your marriage. He pulled me aside to tell me how much he appreciated something I had done. I remember the conversation so clearly in that I could feel his warmth for you and for life and how much he cared for everyone. I knew on that day you had found your soul mate and the love of your life. Although we did not have the luxury of spending many days alone with the two of you, those days and weekends we did spend together are some of the best memories of our lives. As a couple we admired you and enjoyed your companionship. Kimmy I am so proud of you for what you have done over the last few years. The world has lost one of the most generous souls. Our hearts ache for you. Please know we are here for you in whatever you may need and continue to pray for your heart to heal. Steve will always be in our hearts. We love you. Cindy and Jeff
Oh kimmie much love your way…
As I’m sure happens to everyone else who visits this page, seeing Steve’s picture causes such joy and sorrow. Steve was truly one of the world’s wonderful people; always smiling with a sincere desire to help out, making your troubles less troubling or your victories more victorious. While Steve’s smile and constant pleasant attitude will always be remembered, a conversation I had with him will forever be a part of me. I’m not sure what the topic was, but our conversation turned to miracles. I asked Steve if he believed in them. Without hesitation and with utmost convection, Steve replied “Yes, if it weren’t for miracles I wouldn’t be alive today”. I wish miracles had allowed Steve to be with us much longer. However, I’ll be forever thankful for the miracle which created such a wonderful person and allowed us the opportunity to know and spend time with Steve. All the best to Steve’s family and friends, especially Kim for making such a happy person happier and taking care of him during tough times.
Kim:
You better than anybody, know how much affection I had for the good old Steve! He, without a doubt, thought me the meaning of family, life and responsible hardwork, patience and to enjoy simple things like floating on a boat or doing landscaping, thanks to his example I became what I´m now! I’m so sorry to find out about his departure, He will always be one of my best teachers.
Remember that you have family in Mexico that cares for you too.
May God have him by his side!!
Hugs
Gino
Hi, some how, my brother came across this obituary of Steve Miserocchi, of which I happen to share the same name…..which must mean, that we are from the same Miserocchi’s that settled in New York, back in the early 1900’s. My grand father was Henry Miserocchi, and he had 2 or 3 brothers that settled in the St. Louis area. So, I am presuming, that this Steve and Kim Miserocchi are descendants of my great uncles from the St. Louis area. I live up in Ct. My father, Henry,who was the son of Henry, has since died, as well. But I thought,how amazing is it, that I would come across some other Miserocchi’s !! Feel free to contact me. How amazing is it that there is another Steve Miserocchi. It would be a priviledge to meet other members from our shared past. I am sorry to see that your Steve died so early in his life. In Christ’s Peace, Steve Miserocchi from Ct.