Thomas James Flanagan III
Thomas (Tom) James Flanagan III passed on December 9, 2021 at sunset. He was surrounded by his four children Erin (John), Jamie (Isabel), Trish (Sam) and John (Marianne). He is forever loved by many; wife, Sue; siblings Mary, Maureen, Mark and Pat; grandchildren Maggie, Catie, Jimmy, Fitz, Danny, Jett, Sena, Nathaniel (Brittany), Holly, Hannah and Patty Pearl. He is the proud son of Thomas James Flanagan II and Ruth Fabick Flanagan.
Tom never met a stranger. He made all feel loved and stood for those in need.
Celebration of life will be held on December 19.
My deepest sympathy to the family. Very sorry for your loss.
I have known Tom for over 10 years. We served on a committee together. Tom was very kind and caring. He made a difference in the lives of others. Loved getting his informational emails. Will miss them.
Cherish your memories of him.
Wishing you comfort and peace at this time.
Sincerely,
Sandra Murdock
Tom was a true man of God. Always thinking about the needs of others. A Godly man. He will be deeply missed.
Suzie Fabick
I recall hearing of Tom as a young man running to complete his mail carrier route so he could do his second job…probably medical/surgical device sales. But what impressed me most was Tom’s slowing down to pay full attention to whoever he was talking to…and like great listeners, he was a wise man. Tom loved deeply and is deeply loved.
I adored you, Tom! We served as co-chairs of West County Democrats and I valued his considerable knowledge and expertise Tom knew politics in depth, and could bring a new perspective to many discussions. He was a voice of reason, something that is truly missing in politics today. I will miss him.
For Sue and your family, I wish you the peace of knowing he is in a better place.
Dear Tom, I will always treasure our friendship . Not only did you become the only male in our small group of hospitality at church, but you did more than your share of helping at our events. All of our get togethers were special because you were a part of them. Sharing all of the connections that we had were always a good laugh. Sending lots of good thoughts and prayers to Sue and your family. You will not be forgotten.
Dear Sue and Erin, Jamie, Trish and John,
Tom was a fighter for love and justice. He didn’t want to hear just words about these things, instead he wanted action. What a witness he was to all of us! We at Sts. Clare & Francis, at the time I was pastor, were impacted positively by the many ways he pitched in to our common life. We are very grateful for having known him. I am sorry for the loss you are feeling. The sharp pain of your loss will surely lessen over time, but our memory of his commitment to those in need should not.
Both Tom and Sue have been great friends!
Tom, a man of hospitality, integrity, fun, with a deep commitment to the welfare of humanity. We feel so blessed to have known him.
Tom was a kind and insightful man – always thinking of how he could make the world a better place. I treasure the discussions we shared. I send my deepest condolences to Susan and his family. He lives on in us as his spirit inspires us to all do better.
From the first moment we met Tom & Sue we knew we had connected with chosen family. Tom and Sue have helped and supported us on many of our adventures through life. Tom was always ready to lend a hand and always ready to listen. He will be missed but not forgotten.
Much love to you all,
Therese & Judy
May Dear Tom R.I.P. I had the Honor and Pleasure of Meeting Him at Trish’s Wedding.What a Gentleman. Me with my Big Irish Accent ,Think he enjoyed it. Amazing Children, All there With Him ,Before he went to His Resting Place. Heaven 💕Love Esther.🙏🙏
I am so glad I got to know Tom. I will miss his research and emails sharing political and current topics. He will be missed my many, especially his family.
On behalf of all the members of Sts Clare and Francis we want to offer sincere condolences to Tom’s family. At this sad time please take comfort in knowing that Tom touched many hearts at our community, and he leaves many friends here as well.
May God bless you,
The Parish Council
Sts Clare and Francis ECC, Webster Groves
Tom’s byline “Once you know, you can’t unknow” will always be my reminder of his concern for equality and justice.
Loved having discussions with him, he made a lot of issues hot or cold. Will miss his posts and a daily focus on what can be done to correct injustice
When Tom and Sue would visit us on their West Coast road trips, it was a hoot. My heart goes out to his family and Kay’s cousin Sue.
Kelly Pickering
Tom was a personal hero, teacher, and dear friend. His loss leaves a gap in my world. I am so happy I had the chance to get to know him and Sue.
Sending love and continued prayers for peace to the the whole family. I’ll always remember Mr. Flanagan’s million dollar smile (that he gave away freely), his kind demeanor, his humor, and his love for his family.
The longer time goes by the more I miss my cousin Tom. He was a very deep sincere man with a great sense of humor. Miss you.